Okay I have a question and it may sound a little stupid. I'm meeting up with a POT in about 2 weeks (july 8th), because then he'll be back in Germany. Anyway - is it okay to straight up ask for money on the first date? I mean I kind of just make him pay the things I've done specifically for him - nails and hair, make up, clothes ect. I wanna ask him before I do all of this so he'll know what I want.
Honestly I would be upfront about it, because at the end of the day he's going to be upfront about what he wants from you...
Sugaring is an arrangement, so it's only right that both parties know exactly what's expected of them!
With that being said try to be tactful / charming about it. Rather than "so how much money are you willing to give me" try something more like "I've got a great feeling about our relationship/arrangement but I want to discuss our expectations and what we can give each other..."
I hope that helps a little and good luck for your date on the 8th!
KP ~ xx















