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I don't generally like to ask for help on the internet but this is so very important to me. BigBoi is my "soul cat" and my familiar. I love him to death. He has cancer. Luckily it hasn't spread but because of the location of his tumor he has to have a very detailed laser surgery procedure. We threw a fundraiser for him last weekend and we are so very close to meeting our goal to save this sweet gentle giant. 

Please help me and my family have a long loving life with this sweet guy. He's only 6 years old. i adopted him 8 months ago from a no kill shelter where he had spent most of his life. I want to give him the loving home he deserves for as long as I can. If you can't donate I totally understand but please send us positive thoughts and share the link to our story

I couldn't help the crazy desire I had to write this post today. I don't do text posts very often but I couldn't get this out of my head.

Last night I had the best sex of my life. A kind of sex that I don't think is seen very much, at least in the midwest. Growing up in a small town in the bible belt, church, summer camp and basically every day life taught me that women were not supposed to feel sexual. Men have sexuality and it is a woman's job to protect them from their urges until marriage. <<-- That right there has made so many women suppress their own sexuality and their own desires and has left them feeling guilty and in a way disgusted with themselves for wanting to feel arousal and for wanting to be comfortable sexually. It's wrong.

That's why last night was the best sex I'd ever had. My partner was the kind of man who didn't get off unless I was getting off. Sex became all about me, there were no boundaries. Anything I wanted I received. And I mean anything. All night until the sun came up. 

I just had to write something because I think every woman is entitled to feel this way. So many men in my personal sexual history have been all about themselves. When they finish, it's finished, there's nothing left to do. I know I'm not the only one. That should be eradicated. There shouldn't be anything stopping you from being completely comfortable with your sexual desires, whether it be in the bedroom, living room, the kitchen table, a fucking picnic table, or whatever, wherever and whenever you want. 

There should be no qualms. Sex should be about the pure arousal of each other. Both should gain from every satisfying second.

My partner wasn't happy until I was completely satisfied. His satisfaction came in the form of my trembles, my desires, everything I wanted. And in turn, when I ended the night with every fiber of my body satisfied in every way I ever dreamed of, he got exactly what he wanted.