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Chastity story / The Pump

Haven’t posted for a while, here’s a short story (pure fantasy!) about chastity and some unexpected side effects. Enjoy!

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The Pump

“So it’s the first of January, I control your releases for two months, agreed?”

I looked at John happily and said “yes sir!”

The key twisted in the lock and my cock was caged - in the smallest metal cage we had, barely 1.5 inches long and with a sharp downward curve that meant I felt every attempted erection. John and I had been together 13 years and sex had started to become less frequent, and less fun, until we discovered a mutual love of kink. And chastity play was what really did it for me. We were both notionally switches, and John had even tried a cock cage a couple of times, but we knew who was more into submission. Besides, John had a really wide cock, a generous seven or eight inches long, which made it difficult to fit a cage.

Two months would be my longest lock up yet. John might let me cum during that period, most likely a ruined orgasm, but I knew I shouldn’t rely on even that. I had to accept I might not cum at all. I’d gone 45 days before without orgasm and was happy I could do it.

That first week passed pretty much as expected. John fucked me a couple of times, and came in my face as well, all while I strained. Then on the Saturday he told me to get on the bed and get ready to be handcuffed. I eagerly agreed and was soon spread eagled on my back. John unlocked my cock, which sprang to attention - about six inches when unrestrained. Was I in for some teasing and edging? But no, instead John dived under the bed and retrieved a penis pump. This was new! A little bit of lube and he slipped it on my cock and started pumping. I’d never used one before and after a week without orgasms it felt great... until it didn’t.

“Ah...ow...that’s starting to hurt sir”

“And? Don’t tell me you don’t like a bit of pain.”

He was right of course. I just wasn’t used to this. But I soon settled in and enjoyed the new sensations. I could see my cock getting as erect as it’s ever been, straining past the 6.5” marker on the tube of the pump, and visibly fatter than usual. More worrying was a purple tinge that suggested I might be bruising.

“Isn’t this going to make it harder to get the cage back on sir?” I said, hoping that practicality might cause him to pause.

“Let me worry about that” came the reply

There was nothing for me to do but just lie back and try to get as much enjoyment out of it as I could. After about an hour he took the pump off, gave my cock a couple of teasing flicks, and went to make himself a coffee. I lay there on the bed, watching my sore dick slowly deflate, wondering how on earth it was going to get back into its cage. Another hour later, as I dozed on the bed, John burst into the room, slathered my cock in baby oil and painfully squeezed the cage back on. It all happened so quickly I was barely awake before I heard the click. He smirked at me maliciously. “I figured that was the best way to make sure you didn’t get a hardon so the cage would fit.” He was right, but that didn’t mean that my cock didn’t hurt like hell. It was very red, and the swollen flesh pressed against the bars of the cage. He uncuffed me, flipped me over and fucked me hard. Despite the pain in my cock it felt great to have my ass filled, and we collapsed on the bed afterwards in a sweaty mess. His fat cock lay on his thigh, still slightly engorged as he stroked me and said “You know, if we let your cock free after that ordeal, I think it might be nearly as big as mine. Nearly. But it stays where it is. You know I don’t like the competition.” I laughed.

It took a while afterwards for the swelling in my cock to go down, and for it to start to feel less painful. And every time John fucked me, the straining reminded me of what I had gone through. On the second Saturday, he had me cuffed and spreadeagled again, this time blindfolded which always heightened the experience. The lock clicked open, and my cock sprang out, and it felt virtually recovered from the week before. “There,” he whispered, “but what’s our motto?”.

“Release doesn’t mean release, sir” I said. I knew that just because I was out of the cage didn’t mean I was getting any kind of orgasm. After a while, I heard a fumbling under the bed and the penis pump slid over my cock while John went to work.

“Do you like that?” he asked. “A little” I replied, “But I thought it turned you on to see my cock all small in its cage, won’t pumping make it bigger in the long run?” We’d both seen porn with guys who’d pumped their cocks so hard they’d become enormous, cartoon-like things.

“Maybe, we’ll see.”

John had clearly enjoyed last week’s little adventure, because it followed the same pattern this time. My cock felt bruised, but I couldn’t see what was going on, which meant that after another hard session of pumping my erection went down a bit faster. Lock clicked on, and I got the hardest fucking I’d ever had, which released some of my pent up horniness even if my cock didn’t get the orgasm it craved. When the blindfold came off, I could see that my poor cock was definitely bruised this time, an angry red-blue in the cage. But after a fucking like that I was in no mood to complain. It was a weird kink that John was developing, but I liked that we were still able to surprise each other. It clearly turned him on to do this, which just made me hornier and more eager to please.

In fact the next few weeks became a bit of a blur of being blindfolded, cuffed, unlocked, pumped, locked and fucked. Frustrating as hell, in the best way possible. Yes my dick was constantly bruised, dark purple, and each return to the cage felt like fire, but I always put myself in John’s hands willingly, and it always ended with his cock filling my ass, so I figured it was worth it.

After five weeks of that, I was a bit relieved when he said “Let’s give the pump a rest shall we? That little nub of yours has been through a lot”. “Thank you sir!” I replied. “And if I’m not pumping you, I suppose there’s no reason to let you out of the cage is there?” “Not unless you want me to cum, sir.” “Careful now. You’re not begging to cum are you?” “No sir, I never would!” It was a standing rule that begging to cum could add a week to my lock-up time, and at this point I was close to my cum-free record and knew for sure I didn’t want to go beyond two whole months.

In fact, over the next few weeks, as my cock mended, John was much gentler when we had sex. He fucked me less, but I sucked him off enthusiastically. Finally, the first of March rolled round. I hadn’t been let out of my cage since my last pumping session, but was glad that my cock had had time to heal. The purple had faded to brown, then yellow, and was now back to its usual colour and the swelling had well and truly gone down.

“You know what day it is. Why don’t we start with you cuffed and blindfolded?”

I climbed onto the bed warily. Was he going to get the pump out again? I didn’t want my cock to be so sore that I couldn’t jerk off when I finally got released. But fortunately there was no sound of rummaging. Instead he brought his mouth right to my ear and whispered:

“In fact, you’ve been such a good boy, why don’t I let you fuck me for a change?”

Yes! At that point I couldn’t have loved him more, what a perfect way to end such a long lock-up. John didn’t let me fuck him often - it wasn’t his favourite thing to do, and it had been over 18 months since the last time.

I felt him take the key to my cage and run it slowly down my side, before unlocking the cage and letting my cock free. I felt the blood rush to my dick in excitement.

“Oh no.” he gasped in mock horror. “What?” I said, nervous.

“Well, you know how pumping gives some people big floppy cocks. Do you know how it actually works?”

“No” I replied, confused. Was my cock all swollen?

“Well, the pumping damages the spongy tissue in the cock, and if you pump regularly then that tissue heals while your cock is still swollen, giving you that crazy huge dick look.”

I was really confused now.

“But when I pumped your little nub, we put it back in its cage straight away, and I think it’s had some.. consequences”

“What do you mean? Take the blindfold off!” I said.

“You’re clearly distressed, so I’ll forgive you for not saying please.” John replied, that smile still in his voice.

I felt the blindfold come off and stared down in horror. My cock was erect, I could feel that it was stiff, but you wouldn’t recognise it as an erection. It was tiny and curled downwards, the exact size and shape of my cage.

“It looks like your cock decided that when it healed it made much more sense to heal in the shape of your little caged nub. What use is a big powerful erection if it doesn’t get let out?”

I was speechless.

John came over onto the bed and straddled me, flopping his cock down next to my pathetic excuse for an erection.

“Did I say you could fuck me? Hmmm. That doesn’t seem right somehow. I mean, look at us!”

I was dazed, and angry, and ecstatic, and turned on, and humiliated all at once.

“I’m not even sure you’d enjoy jerking off that silly little thing would you? No I think a cage suits you. Don’t you?”

I didn’t know what to say, so John told me: “Say ‘Please lock me up again sir’”

I paused a little. He had known this would happen, didn’t he? He had reshaped my cock into a tiny nub. But the look he gave me was too much and I crumbled.

“Please lock me up again sir” I croaked.

“Good. And how long for do you think?”

“As long as you want sir” I said, knowing it was the only correct answer.

John gave me a big grin. “Great. In fact I got you a new cage. He held up the tiniest cage I had ever seen, a dome of shiny steel less than an inch long. He had no trouble fitting it over my now-shrivelled dick.

“That fits pretty well!” said John, delighted, “And maybe with a bit of pumping we can get it to fit even better. Now lift your ass in the air, I feel like fucking.”

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Holy Trainer, Batman

I had heard so many positive reviews of the Holy Trainer that when I got one (short cage, largest ring size) and it was excruciating to wear I was so disappointed. It was especially a shame since (1) it's super discreet, (2) it looks good (3) it lacks some of the flaws of the CB-x series like stupid vents (4) I really like the built in lock as opposed to a clanking padlock. However by progressively testing it I realise it's only painful when my balls are tight against my body. Since I realised that I've been trying to stretch my balls a bit (with ball stretchers, obvs) and it seems to have paid off. Unless I'm cold the HT now fits great. Currently I'm wearing it about 20 hours a day. When I get woken up with a painful erection at 4am I am releasing myself in order to maximise sleep but over time it's getting less painful and I expect to be able to sleep through with it before long. And finally, the best prize of all: I can use a urinal while wearing it! I can do so in such a way as to keep it from all but the most insistent peepers so I'm not too concerned about being found out. It's NOT part of my kink to share it with innocent bystanders, so I'm definitely not trying to show it off. Currently looking to move down a ring size if my body will take it, to ensure it sits higher. Boy this chastity thing is expensive.

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Much to learn

Boyf and I had sex on Sunday, and it was a scaled down version of the scene I posted previously. I had only planned to have a ruined orgasm while tied down, because I haven't hit my next weight goal. The problem was boyf did a really good job of ruining the orgasm. It barely felt like an orgasm and I remained completely hard and as horny as when we'd started when he took blindfold/cuffs off. He'd already cum. So being the loving attentive boyf he is he asked me if I wanted cum properly and in my weakness I said yes, jerking off while he tortured my nipples. I came again very quickly and immediately felt regret that I hadn't been stronger. Didn't have the heart to use it as a teachable moment with boyf about controlling my orgasms. With hindsight there were two easy fixes that could have made it more d/s. Either - he ORDERS me to jerk off and cum (throw in forced knob polishing to really make it fly!) - he says "do you want to cum properly? because if you do there will be consequences..." I think I'm probably hoping for too much to mix boyf orgasm control with my own weight loss system so perhaps I need to wait until I've lost the five kilos I originally planned to lose and then I can work out a system with him. Still not sure if that's going to include 24/7 caging - I just haven't found the right cage for that yet. Best current contender is Holy Trainer small which was agonising for me to wear initially (too small a ring-cage gap for balls that sit high n tight). My body (read: balls) is slowly getting used to it and when I can get through the night with it on it's got potential. It's super comfortable when my balls are relaxed but the downside to it is it will necessitate unlocking to clean at least every couple of days. A good compromise solution for now.

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Lapse

Not a lapse according to my own rules, but still a misstep on my part. I had a dreadful night's sleep, horny and frustrated. When I weighed myself at about 6 I found I'd achieved the next goal weight (84.3kg if you're counting) and so had earned the right to come. My rational brain said "wait until the weekend when you can do something elaborate with boyf, it'll feel so much better". My sleep deprived horny brain won though, and I masturbated. I did at least attempt to ruin it because I'm still playing with those sensations. I was successful in ruining it (cock bucked unfondled for what felt like forever before I came) but it still felt pretty damn good after nearly 9 days. And I've found that rapping my balls firmly doesn't seem to ruin it, if anything it feels better. Live and learn. I thought at the grand age of thirty-*cough* I'd pretty much know my orgasms inside and out but I definitely don't. I can still do something with boyf at the weekend but it ought not to involve me cumming. That's fine by me but I don't think he's completely comfortable with it at the moment. Perhaps giving him the power to override my chastity rules if he wants could be another step to including him? Feels wrong but I'll consider it.

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Self-imposed chastity

Since my other half isn’t that into controlling when I come just yet, I’m running on my own steam. So rather than being aimless about chastity, and since I'm looking to get healthier, I've decided to direct it towards weight loss. I started at 87.3 kg and am promising myself that I will only come each time I lose a kilo. I don't have a definite end goal in mind but I'm thinking 5kg would be a healthy start. Just to be clear, the weight loss is through diet and exercise, nothing crazy. I've got a lot more fruit and veg in stock than usual! Boyf knows all about this. it's going well. I lost the first pretty quick and the second after ten days (but waited til 12 to come to coordinate the previously posted scene). Most of the way to the third now so hoping to set up a scene this w/e. I want boyf to see all sorts of benefits in this new kink and one will be a healthier partner. There was a glimmer yesterday in the boyf that he might be up for some games. He said "How would you feel if I messed around with our bathroom scales?" with a slight smirk. I said that could be pretty hot. I don't think he actually could because they're electronic, but it tells me that he's starting to get the idea of teasing. Progress!

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7 May 2017 - first "scene"

I have been exploring my kinky side with my BF of over 15 years. He's pretty vanilla, but through online exploration I've realised I'm pretty kinky in a mostly submissive way. we've only incorporated BDSM into our sex lives in the mildest of ways e.g. restraining my hands while he fucks me, cumming in my face. All good stuff but even then that's not all the time and he doesn't naturally play on power imbalance - that's fair, it's not a big thing for him (yet...). I've been getting into chastity play, but it leaves him indifferent / puzzled. Seeing me caged doesn't particularly get him going. And since I'm struggling with long term wear of devices, I don't think it's the right time for him to be my KH. So I've opted for a different tack. Presented here is a scene I asked him to play out for me after I had abstained from coming for 12 days (a personal record). I talked to him about it then literally wrote it out as below. For this you will need two sets of cuffs, chained nipple clamps, blindfold and lube... ---- RULE : I don't get to touch my dick until you say and you can make me stop touching myself at any point by just saying "stop that" Cuff my hands and legs so immobile and comfortable. Hands behind my back should work. You put blindfold on me You put nipple clamps on me. DON'T WORRY ABOUT ME! I've played with these enough to know that as long as applied gently I can handle it AND REALLY ENJOY IT. Edge me for as long or as little as you like. Taunts are welcome e.g. "12 days? You must really want to come", "Not yet, I haven't decided you can come", "You know that when I let you come I'm going to spoil it, don't you?" -nipple play optional, up to you When it looks like I'm close to coming, only touch me very lightly. Aim is for me to come while I get minimal physical stimulation. Firm but gentle taps on my balls will also help to spoil it if you feel like. AGAIN DON'T WORRY ABOUT ME. Taunts are welcome e.g. "Oh dear." and "Never mind, I'll give you one more chance" Let my erection go down a bit before letting me out of cuffs etc. You explain the next part to me: "I'm going to fuck you hard, and if you can make yourself come before I come then that's allowed. But if I come first you stop playing with yourself. Either way, you're not coming again after that for a long time." The rule still applies - you decide when I can start touching myself. Fuck me on my back or doggy style, and you can get comfortable before telling me I'm allowed to touch myself. Whether you try to come as quickly as possible or not is up to you. You can make it a close race or not even close. I may not be able to get hard, I don't know. Or I may come like a bullet train. Let's find out! Whether I come properly or not, I will be super horny / happy about the whole thing. Taunts welcome eg "I'm quite close I think" (whether you are or not), "It's going to be such a long time before you come again.", "that dick of yours needs to be locked up and out of trouble." During the whole thing you don't have to pretend to be a supervillain. Both you and your 'character' know that this is what I want and (ideally) enjoy toying with me in this way. Whatever happens I will probably say "thank you" a lot. --- The whole scene played out pretty much as imagined and I enjoyed it tremendously. Boyf also enjoyed it, and I think it helped him understand better the sort of things which get me going. The only slight disappointment was how easy it was for me to come after the ruined orgasm. I had really liked the competitive angle of the scene in my head, but there was no competition at all, I was practically ready to come before he'd got comfortable fucking me. Adjustments will need to be made next time. The point of this is not to make life easy for me after all..!

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The journey starts here (sort of)

Inspired by the likes of @chastityeastlondon blogging about his relationship I've decided to chart how I get on in my own kinky journey. That journey hasn't started recently, but it's something I've been thinking about more and more. Tumblr has been a blessing and a curse, including a few ppl who blog with healthily delineated senses of reality and fantasy (e.g. @ukstudentalpha and the aforementioned @chastityeastlondon ) amongst a sea of people who churn out wank and strain material. The wank and strain material has its place but text is good too. I start from the point of view that seeking happiness in whatever way suits you tends to be a good thing, but recognising that the brain is a complex thing which can enter self-destructive spirals with more or less outside encouragement. There are corners of the BDSM world I find morally problematic, even with apparent consent on all sides, but I'm still working that through in my own mind. Where I've got to is that I'm probably not looking for extreme domination. I want a sub dom dynamic that improves our sex lives without bleeding (for the most part) into everyday life, let alone public life. I find chastity and orgasm control a big turn on so that's where a lot of my focus is right now, together with some bondage and light sadomasochism. i've always been a bit of a masochist and am only recently properly exploring that. The next post will give a bit more of an idea of where I'm starting from and with whom.

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Tension is rising...

There has been a change in how I feel over the last 24 hours. It’s been about a week since I last had an orgasm, when I was on holiday and on a chastity break. As soon as we got back from holiday, I was locked up and there has been a gentle increase in my levels of arousal until last night. At around 1am, I woke up with a start to find I was still hard; I may have been hard since my KH teased me a few hours before, or I may have drifted off to sleep… that’s all a bit hazy.

When teasing me, I was reminded that we’re in this for the long haul and even after I next get to cum, I’m getting locked up again right away. So, obviously all of this kept m straining against my cage for ages. Later, I made him cum and as soon as he shot his load, I felt annoyed that I was locked. Minutes later, I was thinking how much I need to be kept locked. Then I was annoyed again. It’s strange really, this chastity lark; I would love to cum - and I am not far off feeling that I simply *must* come - but I definitely want to remain under lock and key as well. My KH, who is my boyfriend, must remain strong and not give me what I want right now.

Also, what sort of a boyfriend would keep me locked up when I so obviously have to have an orgasm?

At 1am, I went for a pee, which helped calm me down and then for the first time, I applied a bag of frozen peas to my cage to cool me off. it actually worked so that I could go to sleep.

My first thought this morning? “Oh wow, I’m still locked. I love it!” I love that my KH reaches for my locked cock to fondle it every morning, it shows me how much he enjoys this and how much this means to him.

So, my gentle increase in arousal levels is well and truly over. And I’m only a week in. My aim, for what it’s worth, it to be locked for a full month. My KH only tells me that it’s “going to be quite some time” which only starts this love it/hate it cycle off all over again.

There’s a really small, but insistent, part of me that wants to keep this going and going. I think in the end, this feeling is going to grow.

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Sooo many chastity blogs out there, most of them photo based and a lot of BS fantasy (which is hot but unrealistic). It's great to come across a blog with some actual words! Aspiring to get to where these guys are, which sounds both hot AND realistic.

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