Let's get kinky

Sure! ♥

I also had another anon ask for which ones don’t impede the groin area, so I asterisked* those

Simple Weave *

Horizon Harness *

Hip-cross Harness

Checkerboard Harness

Mirror Harness

Loves Me Knot Harness

Fishbone Bodysuit

Six Ring Harness

Spider String Bodysuit

Haze Harness *

Side-Hitch Harness

Weave Harness

Sidearm Harness

Coinbasket Harness

Lovers Harness

Consequence Collar & Cuffs

Consequence Rope Gag

Tortoise Shell Bodysuit

Half Turtle *

Harlot Harness

Samurai Tie

Dragonfly Sleeve

Hitachi Harness

Hip Harness *

Leg Wrap *

Leg Ladder *

Versatile Ladder *

3 Sorts of Hand Ties *

Pearl Harness & Wrist Cuffs *

Corset Harness *

Hogtie *

Frog Tie *

Wrist or AnkleSlip Knot Restraint *

How to Bundle Rope

Lush uses a lot of herbs that are imbued with magical qualities. Enjoy this masterpost on all their current bath bombs (not including jelly bombs or shaped bath bombs) and what properties they have to keep you feeling your witchiest:

Guardian of the Forest

Cypress Oil - This oil helps to strengthen the connection between the witch and the afterlife. It can help those who are grieving after the passing of a loved one and can also strengthen a witch’s connection to spirits. It is a good oil to use when grounding or trying to concentrate. 

Lime Oil - It not only strengthens the skin but also promotes youthfulness and tranquility. Lime is said to purify and cleanse one’s physical energy. It brightens and rejuvenates the soul as well as the physical being.

Rosewood Oil - Those wishing to form closer bonds with Mars, Venus, or the Moon would be wise to utilize rosewood. While it is known for sensuality and sexuality, rosewood also promotes the spirit and fire elements and can represent maturity and femininity.

Oakmoss Absolute - Oakmoss is used when the caster is in need of money, luck, or all-around good fortune. It can help the caster form a stronger bond to Jupiter or the earth element.

Intergalactic

Peppermint Oil - Peppermint can be used to cleanse the soul of bad energies. It is revitalizing and brings positivity to the life of the caster. It can help to maintain good health, mentally and physically. Use when showing interest in Pluto or Hecate.

Vetivert Oil - A potent aphrodisiac, vetivert is used mainly in the breaking of hexes and curses. Can also be used for protective purposes.

Cedarwood Oil - Cedarwood should be used when honoring male deities or Sun god(s). It is associated with longevity, protection, love, wisdom, and prosperity.

Cheer Up Buttercup

Lime Oil -  It not only strengthens the skin but also promotes youthfulness and tranquility. Lime is said to purify and cleanse one’s physical energy. It brightens and rejuvenates the soul as well as the physical being.

Lemon Myrtle Oil - Lemon is known for balancing chakras and purification. It can steer you away from negative thoughts and habits. Myrtle can be used when honoring Venus, Minerva, and Mars. It brings fertility and luck.

Neroli Oil - The same as Orange Blossom Oil. Wear for sensuality and attention from lovers. Said to bring about marriage proposals.

Sex Bomb

Clary Sage Oil - This oil should be used when a witch is in need of a clear head or wishes to divinate. It is said to be eye-opening and can lead to vivid lucid dreaming. The scent can be uplifting and euphoric.

Jasmine Absolute - Can be used when trying to form a bond with Diana or Vishnu. Also frequently used in Moon magic. Jasmine brings love and attraction.

Ylang Ylang Oil - Promotes attraction, love, lust, sensuality, and sexuality. It is primarily used when the caster is searching for a partner but can also be used in Faerie magic.

Twilight

Lavender Oil - Calming but also sensual. Lavender aids in sleep but also promotes sensuality and is used in purifying and healing rituals.

Tonka Absolute - Tonka beans bring wealth and courage. The caster may choose to use Tonka absolute in rituals involving Venus or Jupiter.

Ylang Ylang Oil -  Promotes attraction, love, lust, sensuality, and sexuality. It is primarily used when the caster is searching for a partner but can also be used in Faerie magic.

The Experimenter

Vetivert Oil -  A potent aphrodisiac, vetivert is used mainly in the breaking of hexes and curses. Can also be used for protective purposes.

Tonka Absolute -  Tonka beans bring wealth and courage. The caster may choose to use Tonka absolute in rituals involving Venus or Jupiter.

Vanilla Absolute - Lust, sensuality, and warmth are associated with Vanilla. It can be used to gain material objects but also in love potions, whether platonic or sexual.

Butterball

Ylang Ylang Oil -  Promotes attraction, love, lust, sensuality, and sexuality. It is primarily used when the caster is searching for a partner but can also be used in Faerie magic.

Big Blue

Arame Seaweed - I could not find many sources on its magical properties, but seaweed can be used by Sea Witches in order to bond with the ocean and its creatures or as an offering.

Sea Salt - Salt absorbs negative and bad energies and can be used to protect the witch from harmful spirits or curses.

Lemon Oil -  Lemon is known for balancing chakras and purification. It can steer you away from negative thoughts and habits.

Lavender Oil -  Calming but also sensual. Lavender aids in sleep but also promotes sensuality and is used in purifying and healing rituals.

Dragon’s Egg

Lemon Oil -  Lemon is known for balancing chakras and purification. It can steer you away from negative thoughts and habits.

Bergamot Oil - Bergamot is most often used when the caster is seeking success or financial luck. 

Jasmine Absolute - Can be used when trying to form a bond with Diana or Vishnu. Also frequently used in Moon magic. Jasmine brings love and attraction.

Gardenia Extract - An oil that brings the wearer protection, love, and harmony.

Avobath

Lemongrass Oil - Used mostly in psychic rituals. Can aid and enhance psychic powers. Also common among rituals that involve Faerie magic. Will bring the caster spiritual confidence.

Bergamot Oil - Bergamot is most often used when the caster is seeking success or financial luck.

Rosewood Oil -  Those wishing to form closer bonds with Mars, Venus, or the Moon would be wise to utilize rosewood. While it is known for sensuality and sexuality, rosewood also promotes the spirit and fire elements and can represent maturity and femininity.

Sakura

Mimosa Absolute - Often used to enhance prophetic ability or in healing rituals. Can bring a witch visions, self-confidence, and spirituality.

Lemon Oil -  Lemon is known for balancing chakras and purification. It can steer you away from negative thoughts and habits.

Orange Blossom Absolute - Wear for sensuality and attention from lovers. Said to bring about marriage proposals.

Jasmine Absolute - Can be used when trying to form a bond with Diana or Vishnu. Also frequently used in Moon magic. Jasmine brings love and attraction.

Gardenia Extract - An oil that brings the wearer protection, love, and harmony.

Fizzbanger

Petitgrain Oil - Stimulates self-love and is strongly imbued with protective qualities. Use in spells or rituals for protection.

Cinnamon Leaf Oil - Use when attempting to meditate. It can be used for personal protection or in fire element rituals.

Ylang Ylang Oil -  Promotes attraction, love, lust, sensuality, and sexuality. It is primarily used when the caster is searching for a partner but can also be used in Faerie magic.

Oakmoss Extract -  Oakmoss is used when the caster is in need of money, luck, or all-around good fortune. It can help the caster form a stronger bond to Jupiter or the earth element.

Metamorphosis

Black Pepper Oil - Increases self-confidence and belief in personal values/independence. Prevents willful ignorance. Improves the wearer’s courage. Can be used in protection spells or elemental magic.

Cinnamon Leaf Oil - Use when attempting to meditate. It can be used for personal protection or in fire element rituals.

Myrrh Resinoid - Often seen as a highly religious oil, can be used in many religious rituals. Courage and protective spells. Used when attempting to connect with Isis and Re.

Pink

Vanilla Absolute - Lust, sensuality, and warmth are associated with Vanilla. It can be used to gain material objects but also in love potions, whether platonic or sexual.

Lavender Absolute - Calming but also sensual. Lavender aids in sleep but also promotes sensuality and is used in purifying and healing rituals.

Tonka Absolute - Tonka beans bring wealth and courage. The caster may choose to use Tonka absolute in rituals involving Venus or Jupiter.

Neroli Oil - The same as Orange Blossom Oil. Wear for sensuality and attention from lovers. Said to bring about marriage proposals.

Over and Over

Lime Oil -  It not only strengthens the skin but also promotes youthfulness and tranquility. Lime is said to purify and cleanse one’s physical energy. It brightens and rejuvenates the soul as well as the physical being.

Fennel Oil - Keeps evil at bay, used for strong protection spells.

Cypress Oil -  This oil helps to strengthen the connection between the witch and the afterlife. It can help those who are grieving after the passing of a loved one and can also strengthen a witch’s connection to spirits. It is a good oil to use when grounding or trying to concentrate.

1.  Assume that they are always looking for an excuse to punish you.  Never, for example, accidentally eat their cheese sandwich.

2.  If they force you to write down your fantasies for their reading pleasure, don’t write down anything that you wouldn’t want to actually happen at some time in the future.  Once you are running naked through the woods pursued on horseback it’s usually too late to protest.

3.  Don’t put off the inevitable, it will only get worse.

4.  Take great care when purchasing anything for the home, as it is likely to be used as a toy sooner rather than later.  Trips to home improvement store are particularly suspicious.

5.  Think twice before liking any pictures on Fetlife - you’ll only give them ideas.  

6.  Cultivate an innocent expression.  Try this out on your friends, practice makes perfect.

7.  Assume every doughnut (or any other edible treat) is your last.

8.  Don’t forget your manners in the throes of passion and wipe off excess bodily fluids on their chests, this behaviour is frowned upon for some reason.

9.  Never ever express a dislike of anything, especially cold showers.

10.  When in doubt, hide.

republished with permission by Fetlife User: superunderbabe

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This post should give all you littles some ideas and instructions. So you can have some naughty fun with your stuffies in a nice and cute way. This post was created with deep inside information provided by my babygirl and her stuffies.

📣 Communication: 📣

💡 As always communication is key.

💡Ask him/her if he/she is willing to help you learn to explore and how to satisfy yourself.

💡Ask him/her if he/she wants to try something special or new because they have always great ideas.

💡Ask him/her if he/she wans to have a gangbang. Like the other stuffies watching or to have activities with more then just one stuffie at the same time.

💡Agree on a save word because it could get hot and out of control. You and your stuffie should come up with one for example (nutella, shrek, rainbow, toodles. It should be special).

🚀 Different positions: 🚀

Forplay:

💋 Make your stuffie feel comfortable.

💋 Give him/her a lot of huggies and kissies.

💋 Put nice and comfy light or candles on.

On top:

🔥 You are on top and you ride your stuffie. You start from going to side to side. Then you go in circules slowly and then faster until you cum.

🔥 Using toys to spicy it up. You can put a strap on on your stuffie. Then you can ride it like a little cow girl.

🔥 You rap your legs around your stuffie while you sitting or lying. Then you start in circles to rub your princess parts. To help you coming use the hand of your stuffie.

Eating out:

🔥 If your stuffie has a pointy nose, you can use it to rub your princess parts with it. Lay on your back and rub your stuffies nose on your princess parts until you cum.

🔥 You can sit on your stuffies face and rub your princess parts on the nose until you cum.

On the back:

🔥 You wake up and feel your princess parts tingeling and all of a sudden your stuffie is there because he/she and starts touching with his/her hand. Like that you can pretend he/she is touching you like of nowhere.

🔥 You lay donwn on your back put your stuffie between your legs then move it around to stimulate your princess parts. Again slowly then go faster.

❤ Aftercare: ❤

🐻 Dont forget to clean your stuffie if it got “dirty” because your stuffie deserves to be clean.

🐻 Tell him/her you love him/her lots and lots and not just one time.

🐻 Tell him/her he/she did a great job and you are very happy because of him/her.

Rope diameter –thickness of the actual cord– is all about your own personal taste, and/or what sort of play you feel like doing. Lots of folks have a variety of rope widths in their kit for different kinds of scenes.The thinner it is, the more it’ll bight into the skin.So if pain is your pleasure, go for a smaller diameter.But that also means it won’t be the ‘fully bound/totally covered in rope’ feeling (unless you do A LOT of wraps/details with the skinny rope)It also requires more vigilance to prevent injury from overly tight wraps.

The thicker it is, the more constricted/cocooned the sensation will be.The individual wraps are harder to feelKnots will be ENORMOUS (so they’re usually not used)And it’ll be heavy on the tied person’s body.If compression and confinement are your pleasure, go for a wider diameter.It also depends on the type of rope. The same diameter of rope in cotton will feel much fluffier and thicker than if it’s a jute rope, or coconut rope.TLDR – from what I’ve seen, the most common diameter for jute is 6mm. That’s what I use regularly, and I find it’s good “rope for the sensation of rope” size (not too thin and pinchy, not too thick and bindy)When in doubt, go to a hardware store and buy a little strand of different types/diameters of rope and see how they feel (just as a little arm wrap or something like that)Make sure to have shears ready whenever you tie with a new material though!If you have any other questions I’m always happy to answer!♥ Hazel[This is all for floor play– diameter for suspension purposes is something that has to be learned and seen in person — for fun and safety! :)]

Shibari Tutorial: Harlot Harness 

Acronyms-

DD- Daddy Dominant MD- Mommy Domme CG- Caregiver LG- Little girl LB- Little Boy LO- Little One CGL- Caregiver & Little DDlg- Daddy Dom & little girl DDlb- Daddy Dom & little boy MDlg- Mommy Domme & little girl MDlb- Mommy Domme & little boy ABDL- Adult Baby Diaper Lover AB- Adult Baby DL- Diaper Lover LDR- Long Distance Relationship SSC- Safe Sane consensual RACK- Risk Aware Consensual Kink BDSM- Bondage/Discipline Dominant/Submissive Sadism/Masochism D/s- Dominant/submissive NSFW- Not Safe For Work  SFW- Safe for Work SO- Significant Other

Vocabulary-

Little- a little is a person who mentally (or physically) feels younger than they physically are. The term little is often a broad spectrum. It can cover all types of individuals who feel they are younger than their physical age. A little is roughly around the ages of 0-12. We don’t set these ages in stone because not every little has an age and not every little feels they represent the above listed age.  Middle- a middle is a person who mentally (or physically) feels younger than they physically are. The term middle can fall under the little broad spectrum term. It is also known as Lolita & Nymphet. They tend to be mentally older than littles, more around the teen ages. So around 13-17. Once again ages are not set in stone because not every middle has a set age and not ever middle feels they represent the above listed age.  Dominant- An individual who is the “top” in a BDSM relationship or BDSM spectrum relationship. They tend to be the person who makes the rules, and doles out the punishment. They are also the protector of their submissive.  Submissive- A Submissive is an individual who is the “bottom” in a BDSM or BDSM spectrum relationship. They tend to be the person who receives the punishment and have to follow the enforced rules. They are the protected. Switch- An individual who enjoys being both a Dominant and a submissive. They are known as a switch because they “switch” roles sometimes within their relationship or with a different partner. Daddy Dom- a person who prefers a masculine identifying title, sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be the submissive as well. Usually the caretaker for a little. Mommy Domme- a person who prefers a feminine identifying title, sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be submissive as well. Usually the caretaker for a little.  Caregiver- a non gender specific title that represents someone who sometimes takes on the role of a Dominant but can be a submissive. Usually a person who takes on a care taking/caregiving role to a little.  Master- A term that is used for a person who tends to only strictly play a Dominant role. They can be the Dominant of a little, submissive, or pet.  Big- Another non gender specific title that represents someone who sometimes take on the role of a Dominant but can be a submissive. Little space- The head space a little finds themselves in during their transition, regression or when they become their little persona. Some littles are always littles and always in little space. For others it’s something to regress into. Middle space- The head space a Middle finds themselves in during their transition, regression or when they become their Middle persona. Some Middles are always Middles and are always in middle space. For others it’s something they regress into.  Agender- Someone who has no gender. They are genderless. Gender Fluid- A person who flows between gender. They tend to not have a set gender preference. One day they feel one way, another day they feel another way. Gender Neutral- A term that does not specify gender. It does not favor male nor female.  Genderqueer- An umbrella term for all genders other than man and woman, or someone who simply identifies as another gender, a queer gender. Sister- A term commonly used in Poly families, for a person who Identifies as female and is an addition to the CGL group. They can also be a little, middle or ABDL but not always. Brother-  A term commonly used in Poly families, for a person who identifies as a male and is an addition to the CGL group. They can also be a little, middle or ABDL, but not always.  ABDL- As stated above ABDL means Adult Baby Diaper Lover, people who identify themselves as an ABDL will commonly wear diapers and prefer to be treated as more infantile/baby/toddler ages. If a person wants to be treated like a baby but does not want to wear diapers they will call themselves an AB if an individual enjoys wearing diapers but not being treated like a baby they will often refer to themselves as a DL  Androgynous- A style of clothing or appearance, androgyny is also a type of genderqueer, the state of being in between man and woman, or both man and woman. Demiboy-Someone partly a boy, and partly something else, without defining that other part. Demigirl- Someone partly a girl, and partly something else, without defining that other part.

Sexuality Terms & Defintions-

Poly- An individual who is capable of loving more than one person at once. They prefer the company of multiple people but not necessarily all at once. They also are not always sexually involved with their poly family members. It can be a non sexual relationship.  Heterosexual- A person who is sexually attracted to an individual of the opposite sex. Gay/Lesbian- (better term other than homosexual???) An individual who is attracted to the same sex. Bisexual- A person who is sexually attracted to individuals in the same sex as well as the opposite sex.  Asexual- A person who has no sexual feelings or desires towards another person. Pansexual- An individual who has the ability to be sexually attracted to a person no matter their gender.  Aromantic- A person who lacks the desire or interest in romantic feelings towards another person. Panromantic- An individual who has the ability to be romantically attracted to a person no matter their gender. Demisexual-  An individual who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. Demiromantic- An individual who only experiences romantic attraction after developing an emotional connection beforehand.

Kinks and their definitions-

Pet Play- a form of role playing that involves a person taking on the role of a pet and another taking on the role of the Master. Common examples are kitten, puppy and pony.   Teacher/student- A form of role play that involves a person taking on the role of a student and the other the role of a teacher and acting out a sometimes sexual scenario.  Rope Play- A kink that is not always sexual in nature but involves a person being bound, suspended, or tied in some fashion with ropes. Impact Play- A kink that involves spanking, flogging, cropping, paddling, or anything that involves “impact” on the body. (most commonly used in the CGL realm as spanking) This kink is not always a sexual kink. Wax Play- A kink that involves playing with heated and melted wax in safe conditions. Where an individual willingly pours hot wax (specialty bought for this purpose) on their partner or themselves. Certain waxes need to be used to prevent harm. This kink is not always sexual in nature. Age Play- a type of role play where an individual acts out an age younger than they physically are. They are playing out a role. Because of this they are not considered littles. 

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