bro, i was the same way. i've played a couple others before, but never stuck with them for long since they would get too repetitive and boring. maybe it's because the story somehow fits perfectly with the mechanics of it being a rogue-like, but i never felt that way when playing either of the hades games. uhm, i'd say you could start with either one. there are some references to the first game in 2, but i think they do a pretty good job at explaining things when they need to. and you can always ask me if there is something you want to know. this might be my one chance to actually help you out like you're always helping me when we game. 💀