King Dialo ♔

Being bisexual can come with some baggage at times, and it’s not all that fun at times, but being a bisexual and male has it’s own set of problems.. 

Straight women will think you’re actually gay and just confused.

Gay men with think you’re actually gay and in denial.

Straight men will think you’re actually gay and in denial.

Gay women will think you’re actually gay and just confused.

Either way, they’re going to think you’re gay and not telling the truth or are confused.

Some people have deemed men who like men to be “less than” masculine in some cases, this obviously goes with being a gay man too, but with bisexuality being less understood or acknowledged it’s often used against us much more often, and with less support it just carries on.

Bisexual men are less likely to come out and more likely to remain closeted for longer periods of time, from lack of understanding, acceptance and a fear of rejection. (this also happens to any bisexual person in general, but is slightly higher in males.)

Bisexual men are less likely to talk about their feelings (men talking about feelings is sometimes seen as a big taboo anyway) especially when it comes to same-sex attractions. We often feel more isolated.

There are more myths and misconceptions around bisexuality, which makes some of us less able to hold relationships because of trust issues or being unable to be open and honest with partners.

This is your daily remember that you are awesome, no matter what anybody says. Your struggles are real, your feelings are valid, and you deserve happiness, no matter what the gender of your partner is.