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Letting go of a love that you thought would last forever is so hard to do. That part of you that’s had enough constantly argues with that part of you that doesn’t want to give up on him. 

When every little thing in the house screams his name, when the pictures of your family on the wall make you want to scream because it is no more. 

When you try and try to let go and it doesn’t work and then he keeps coming back even when you let go.. what do you do? Does that mean you aren’t supposed to give up on the relationship or does that just mean he likes using and abusing you? 

So, what can you do to get over someone you love.. 

Some writing of mine that I just came across.. Really hits home for me still. I sill feel this very strongly! 

Why do people complain about the blessings in their life so much?

Do you not realize your blessings? I refer to your kids, jobs, homes, cars, significant others, etc.

Next time you complain about your job, sit for just a moment and consider what type of shape you would be in financially if you lost your job tomorrow and couldn’t replace the income. Do you really wanna go there?

I just sit here and wonder.. Why aren’t people more thankful for the blessings in their life? Some people would love to have that job you complain about.. or that husband you nagged all morning before he left for work.. 

Next time you call your kids hellions or demons or whatever other term of endearment you have for them. Or when they annoy you, you complain about their behavior, gripe about the costs associated with raising them, consider the fact that some people consider children and babies to be a blessing in their life. Some women cry at night because they can’t have kids, while you complain about yours. Some women wish they could have a child or even another child and can’t while you complain about yours! 

Next time you complain about your significant other, consider this. Some people go their entire life without ever finding a happy and fulfilling relationship that lasts. Either they never find “the one” or its too late once they figure it out. Some people pray to have a person in their life that they can trust and love. If you aren’t abused, demeaned or mistreated in your relationship – but the person is “their own person” who has their own wants and needs.. and has their own quirks, embrace those quirks and be thankful you have someone that loves you.

Give them the love they deserve. Be thankful they are in your life.

It truly is time to stop complaining and be thankful for what you have.