Hi what do you think about venus in 8th synastry
Venus in 8th house Synastry
The 8th house in synastry talks talks about the gives and takes of a relationship. The 8th house talks about how much a person is willing to sacrifice and how much they'll gain. When it comes to the 8th house, emotions run deep and makes us aware of our deepest, darkest parts. 8th house relationships transform you in a way, you won't be the same person as you were when you entered the relationship.
Lets see what does Venus in 8th house signify:
Venus, in astrology, is the planet of love and relationships. The 8th house on the other hand, rules birth, death, sex, transformations, the occult etc. When Venus is in the 8th house in synastry, there is a crazy amount of attraction and usually, the house person feels more attraction and tension.
Cut-throat. Emotions are expressed straight forward with this overlay. The thing about this placement is that there's no room for lies, if anyone of you is lying, the other will quickly pick on this energy and the liar will be questioned. Even if not questioned, their lies will come out in the most unexpected ways and in a way that'll make the lie seem worse than it already was, so be honest.
At first, there is attraction, yes, however expressing it is another story. You both can feel this attraction, sexual tension but can't express it at first because of how intense it can be. At the start of the relationships, people like to take it slow but that's not the case with 8th house synastry, there will be a burning passion from the start.
The feelings are very mutual, there isn't a one-way passion felt in this case. Unlike the 12th house synastry, here both partners feel romantically, sexually about each other. There's no hiding. Despite the fact that the passion may be too much at first and it can feel very fiery, but it's never imbalanced, both the parties feel this intense passion for each other.
Since the 8th house talks about being intimate, intimacy will be a big part of the relationship here. But there's not only one type of intimacy, there's many types. Intimacy isn't only sex, but it's the ability to share secrets, being vulnerable with one another, trusting each other etc.
With this synastry overlay, sex can be not only addicting but it can be amazing. Both the partners feel like they complete each other. They can be open minded when it comes to each other's likes and dislikes, their kinks etc. Sex can be healing for them as well. With 1st house synastry, hate sex can be a part of the relationship at times (since both the houses are ruled by Mars).
Secrets can be a part of the relationships. There is mutual understanding and both the partners trust one another. Especially with mercurial influence, secrets can be shared, and there can be the type of secrets which you've never shared with anyone.
With this overlay, you both aren't afraid to show your love for another. One of the love languages can be gift-giving. There can be a lot of financial gain from this relationship.
There is this strong desire to please one another, especially the house person. The house person would really want to please the planet person and gain their respect or validation, whether that be pleasing through thoughtful gifts or through sex. You find pleasure in pleasing your partner.
The house person can also have wild sexual fantasies about the Venus person. The house person can feel weird about this as they've never felt this way about anyone else, so it can be new but exciting as well for them. And Venus person will listen to their fantasies without any judgement.
hope that was helpful.
