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Female friendships are a profound source of strength, joy, and connection. In a world that often celebrates romantic relationships above all, the unique magic of female camaraderie deserves its own spotlight. Let’s explore why these friendships matter, how to build stronger connections, and ways to maintain them over time. The Importance of Female Friendships Strong friendships between women…

I am more than what the mirror shows, A canvas of beauty the world thinks it knows. They see the glow, the charm, the grace, But seldom seek the soul behind the face. Pretty, pretty girl that’s all they say, A title that shadows my thoughts away. Can they not see the dreams I weave, The depth of my mind, the truths I believe? I’ve built myself with tireless care, Gathering skills to prove l’m…

Communication is the lifeblood of any successful relationship. It’s the bridge that connects two hearts, allowing them to share feelings, thoughts, and dreams. Yet, many couples struggle to communicate effectively, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts. Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been together for years, mastering the art of communication can strengthen your bond and bring…

In a world that often emphasizes timelines and milestones, the pressure to have your life figured out by the age of thirty can be overwhelming. However, it’s crucial to understand that life is an unpredictable journey, and not meeting societal expectations doesn’t diminish your worth or potential. Unique Paths, Unique Timelines:Life is not a one-size-fits-all experience. People evolve at…

Being good-looking might seem like it comes with all perks, but it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. People who are considered attractive often face some tough stuff. First off, there’s this big weight of what society expects from them. Everyone thinks life is a breeze for good-looking folks, but the truth is, they deal with a ton of pressure. People assume they’ll ace every social situation and…

In your early 30s, life becomes a compelling tapestry woven with experiences that lead you to the core of who you are. It’s a transformative era where self-discovery takes center stage, akin to the unfolding of a captivating novel. Embrace the exploration of your passions, relationships, and personal boundaries as you embark on this profound journey. 1. Unlocking Passionate Pursuits: The 30s…

Losing a parent to cancer is one of the most difficult and traumatic experiences that anyone can go through. I know this firsthand, as I lost my father to cancer a couple of months ago. His death turned my world upside down, and I have been struggling to cope with the overwhelming grief and sadness that is consuming me in the aftermath of his passing. When my dad was diagnosed with cancer I had…

Caring for a loved one can be a challenging and rewarding experience. Whether it’s a spouse, parent, or child, providing care for someone you care about is an act of love that requires patience, understanding, and dedication. Here are some tips on how to care for a loved one effectively. Educate yourself about your loved one’s condition: Understanding the medical conditions and treatment options…

5 Secrets to enjoying your 30's - Must Read By this point, you realize it's the people you've been through difficult times are your tribe and with whom you share a special bond; they become "the family you choose."

I have come to realize that most people are scared they feel their 30 is approaching. I, on the other hand, believe that this is when our life is beginning and we should make the most out of it. Keep reading. I’m going to tell you why you need to embrace your 30’s and turn this point of your life into the best possible phase ever. When we were growing up 30’s looked so far and we would normally…

After you detect gaslighting, What do you do??

I did a post about how to detect gaslighting, but after you detect you’re being gaslit what do you do? If you don’t know what gaslighting is then take a look at the phrases below if you recognize them. Common gaslighting phrases: “You’re making things up.” “That never happened.”“You’re being dramatic.”“You’re blowing things out of proportion.” If you do recognise them there is a huge…

What Everyone Ought To Know About Millennial Relationships and the Internet

Dating in modern times has become so challenging, the reason being that millennials have a certain way that they perceive relationships. The Millenials are more focused on building a future for themselves and having financial stability, Also when it comes to marriage and relationships, many millennials aren’t in a rush to tie the knot. A lot of these individuals have put off marriage and having…

How to detect Gaslighting …

First Lets understand what Gaslighting means Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse in which someone is made to doubt their own perceptions, feelings, and even sanity. It’s a strategy for gaining power and influence over someone else. An individual must become progressively reliant on the gaslighter to define reality by adopting various manipulative strategies. Some of these strategies are by…

Recently I came to discover that to be happy one must be selfish sometimes. Yes you see if we are too concerned about others we fail to do what makes us happy, and the moment we do what makes us happy we are tagged selfish. This also made me realize many will call you selfish and that is not necessarily an insult, some have just realized that they cannot manipulate you anymore and you have…

Marriage Manual – Do What Works For You

Every one has a different approach when it come to marriage, If you take some time to listen to people you will realize that what some people might say is wrong to do in marriage would work for others in theirs. Everyone has their own portions of difficulties that accompany marriage and everybody has their diverse way to deal with it. If for any reason you should chose to duplicate someone else,…

JOBLESS AND ALMOST LOST MY MIND

Sometime last year I left my job, I wasn’t fired or anything but I was depressed about the job. Every passing day was another struggle of how people would belittle me. One time this woman came in with her husband, and he asked a question concerning the company and before I could answer she went ahead and said “HOW WOULD SHE KNOW SHE’S JUST A RECEPTIONIST” After which she came and tipped me 500…

How I gradually lost my sanity …

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I always knew life after my service would be very challenging and I thought I was prepared for it.

I started my current job three years go the same month after my NYSC and I thought to myself how lucky I am to have gotten a job immediately. I was so lucky that the job was kept for me for a period of 3 months.

My monthly earning was small but I was hopeful…

Millennial’s on speaking your truth

We hear people say that the truth will set you free. And it does sometimes not at first but eventually, some may have heard people say that truth is subjective and would say it is. BUT the truth s not many people are bold enough to speak theirs.

“Living with integrity means: Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships. Asking for what you want and need from…