Keelan_SENKOU01

Having considered it further, obviously I made a stupid misunderstanding, but I wonder if people took the chance to shit on me so hard because I am nonbinary. Maybe if I had never shared my identity to begin with I would have never garnered as much hate. It was still a stupid fuckup but I think it’s worth noting

i know i’m 30 years late but i started the x files and i fear every episode consists of mulder figuring out the case in the first 20 minutes and the last 20 are just him trying to convince scully he’s not crazy lmao

“don’t assume someone’s gender” also applies if you think they look cis btw. it doesn’t just mean “don’t assume someone’s gender if they’re gender non-conforming”. i shouldn’t need to “look nonbinary” for you to even consider that i might be.

as much as I understand why the recent wave of trans solidarity posts are being made (to fight off radfems trying to turn transmascs and transfems against each other) I do find it frustrating that nonbinary people are mentioned only very briefly, if at all. and in that brief mention we're rarely mentioned rarely by name, it's usually written like "transmascs and transfems and all trans people", which... I understand, begrudgingly. being nonbinary isn't a monolith and nor is it a "third option" to trans men and trans women. but sometimes I do feel like people really do keep forgetting that trans people exist outside the transmasc/transfem false dichotomy.

And if nonbinary people are mentioned it’s with the “radfems” to accuse the “afab” nonbinary people of being radfems because of course we need infighting and to make nonbinary people to feel bad about themselves. I hate this shit