..Like us you mean

It took 3 seasons for Eve to acknowledge that she does have a monster and to admit that she feels powerless to hide or stop it, and although she asks Villanelle to help her make it stop, and starts walking away when V tells her to, I think that by 3x08 she doesn't believe that staying away from Villanelle would help her rein in her monster at all.

If anything, Eve must have felt that the more she resists the physical and mental pull she feels towards Villanelle, the more restless she grows, and the less likely she is to be in control of her actions. That is essentially what she showed us in 3x07 and 3x08 in the way she steadily and calmly focused on finding Villanelle without the denial, animosity, rejection, and dishonesty she always manifested before.

What we saw throughout 3x08 was Eve saying "I'm here with you because I want to, I know who I am now, I am done blaming you for who and what I see in the mirror, and I won't have you blame yourself either".

Now my number 1 expectation for S4, no matter what happens plot wise, is for Eve to not go back into any kind of denial about her feelings and who she is, and for Villanelle to find it in her to accept what Eve has to give her.