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If a friend shows up at your doorstep in tears or distraught and is looking for comfort, brew her a witchy cup of tea by imbuing it with your intentions: visualize your friend being warmed and soothed by your cup of tea as she drinks it. As a witch, your intent carries great power through your actions. You perform everyday actions with intent and become more attuned to yourself and the way things work in the world around you. By learning to channel your desires through the spellwork you do, you will manifest happiness, joy, and abundance in your life. 🍵

For the tea blend, you will need:

Lemon Balm

Mint

Chamomile flowers

Lavender

Rosemary

Any additional add-ins you wish to brew into your tea based on your intentions, such as cinnamon for luck, ginger for strength, or sugar for sweetness

For the Spell:

Steep the tea blend in a tea pot or in a loved mug. As it’s steeping, stir the contents with a spoon clockwise and imbue your intent into the tea. Visualize your friend being warmed and soothed by the tea, or imagine her delight when she tastes the tea.

Add any additional spices, herbs, or sugar you’d like to add to the tea now. Consider their magical associations. Add a pinch of cinnamon for luck, or a pinch of ginger for strength, a pinch of thyme for courage, or a pinch of rosemary or salt for protection. Add sugar for sweetness if desired, for both taste and sweetness in mood.

Stir the tea, three times clockwise, one final time and recite: “With tea and spell, and help from above, all is well, light and love.” Then tap your spoon on the mug or teapot three times to seal the spell.

Being able to protect yourself is one of the wonderful things about the craft. Heres a list of some ways to do so. 👻

🧂Salt circles// When preforming a ritual, meditating and so on. They are basically protective barriers. If you have a broom, sweep away negative energy then lay the salt circle.

☆Sachets// These are bags that are sewn together. They are comprised of herbs. The traditional fabric to use is muslin, but any fabric will do.

👝Charm bag// These are bags that basically carry a magick spell. They can be filled with any charged items such as, stones, crystals, charms, herbs, oils, etc.

💎Crystals// One thing amazing about crystals is that they have many properties to them. Carrying some around may help. Black crystals, like obsidian or hematite will relfect negative energy. Smokey quartz will cloak you.

☆Spell jar// These are wonderful for sacred spaces and houses.

➰Sigil// Create and activate a protection sigil.

🦇Spirit animal// if you have a spirit animal, you can call them and ask for protection.

⛓Iron// hanging an iron horsehoe, open end facing down above your door to keep evil spirts out.

👀Visualization// basic meditation with a process of visualization.

♡~ This is one of the things i learned very early on as a witch. Basically, you stand outside your property. Close your eyes and start to breathe in and out. Visualize each chakra opening, kind of like meditation. When you open your last chakra, root, ensure your visualizing your roots going straight to the earths core. Then, use the power from those roots to encase a protective barrier around your house. Imagine the color of it. Imagine it pushing the spirits away from your house. ~♡

🌿🌿Herbs for protection//

• eat citrus fruits or drink fruit water as an alternative to mints. Fruit, especially sour fruit, promotes salivation, which helps to fight off bacteria in your mouth that causes bad breath. adding some strawberry, lemon, and kiwi slices to a bottle of water is a great way to keep your breath sweet.

• Next time you make guacamole, save the pit of the avocado, dry it, and keep it in your purse or on your person. Avocado pits are deeply symbolic of sex, lust, love, and beauty, and can help to attract romance. This symbolism dates back to the ancient aztecs, who named the avocado, “ahacatl,” or “green testicle.”

• Dilute a few drops of pomegranate and rose oil in a teaspoon of coconut oil, and massage this into your neck, chest, and behind your ears as a perfume. The scent is light, seductive, and easy on your partner’s taste buds when they go in to leave a few hickies. Plus, the coconut oil will leave your skin silky smooth and soft.

• Make some DIY jewelry out of wire and river pearl beads. Strings of river pearls can be found at most craft stores; they’re quite cheap, but just as natural and magical as expensive round pearls. Pearls are associated with beauty and sensuality, as well as corresponding to the moon and Venus. They carry a soft energy that promotes both romantic and sexual activity. Red jasper, rose quartz, and rhodochrosite are also good.

• Rosewater. I know so many witches AND non-witches rave over rosewater, but the hype is for good reason. Using rosewater as an astringent facial mist is a refreshing and sensual finishing touch to your date night beauty routine. Rose energy enhances your beauty, and the barely noticeable scent will entice your partner to come a little closer.

• strawberries are a natural aphrodisiac. A stick or container of strawberry lip balm can easily be enchanted to make your lips look naturally ravishing with some rose quartz, red jasper, and a pink candle. Bonus points if it’s pink or red tinted.

• Body glitter!! I know this isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, but as someone who doesn’t often wear makeup, I like to find new and exciting ways to glamourize my look without it. Moisturizing body bars and sprays can be found at stores like lush, (the shimmy shimmy bar is my fave,) or online. You can also make your own with some coconut oil, beeswax, essential and fragrance oils, and skin safe seaweed based glitter. I use body glitter as an extra kick to beauty glamours, and a physical reminder of how magically delicious I look.

You all should already know—this is one of those hyper-performative, commodified rituals people cling to because they’re sold fear. Cleanse your herbs, cleanse your crystals, cleanse your floor, cleanse your cat, cleanse your cleansing tools... and if you don’t, well, that’s why your life is falling apart. That’s not spirituality. That’s anxiety in a velvet cloak.

I had the wisdom early: if something doesn’t resonate in spirit and practicality, I'd drop it. I'm not broken or doomed because I didn’t waft sage over a rock from Etsy. I'm living proof that unshaken confidence is the warding.

"But negativity will cling to you!"

I mean… negativity clings to everyone at times. It’s called being human. That’s not a spiritual emergency—it’s a Tuesday. And half the time, it’s emotional weight, not entities or hexes.

Besides, someone like me, with a sharp psychological lens and a deep root in self-understanding, isn’t going to be shaken by passing moods. I face down villainy, power, darkness, and self-exploration without flinching. That’s not someone who needs a palo santo stick—that’s someone who burns brighter than any candle ever could.

"You must shield yourself daily!"

I'm a realist. You know—protection isn’t about imagining yourself inside a psychic hamster ball every morning. You all should know you’re your own fortress. Your mind, your boundaries, your lived experience? That’s the real shield. You don’t need to throw salt over your shoulder or set up a ring of tourmaline to get through your day.

And let’s not forget—To Ride a Silver Broomstick

That was a formative text for a lot of folks in the early 2000s. But the fact that it didn’t stick with me, and I still found my own damn way, says so much more. I wasn’t clinging to someone else's path—I was making one. Witchcraft, spirituality, darkness—it was never about rulebooks. It was about resonance. Guts. Will. Sovereignty.

Step into the shadow and find your grounding, Embrace the dark to find your own light.

🪶 Silver Sheen Obsidian — Psychic protection + cleansing

Shields your aura from unwanted energy while purifying your field of negativity.

🌫️ Smoky Quartz — Grounding, protection, mood lifting

Anchors your energy and transmutes fear into strength.

🕸️ Spiderweb Obsidian — Cord cutting, grounding, inner peace

Breaks energetic ties and restores balance to your spirit.

🪨 Black Tourmaline — Grounding, protection, purification

A guardian stone that deflects harm and absorbs dense energy.

🌑 Black Kyanite — Physical healing, protection, relaxation

Clears energy blockages and restores calm through the entire chakra system.

🌌 Indigo Gabbro (Mystic Merlinite) — Shadow work, intuition, grounding

FOR PROTECTION

Instant Protection Spell

Traditional Amulet Against Human-Caused Harm

How I Sanctify a New Home

Traditional Spell to Keep a Loved One Safe

How to Enchant Your Tarot Decks

Happiness Transference Spell

How to Create a “Mother’s Love” Amulet

Spell to Prevent a Gun from Firing

How to Use Tarot to Protect Someone

FOR BANISHING

Simple but Potent Traditional Banishing Spell

Traditional Amulet to Banish Fear and Negativity

Spell to Forget a Nightmare

Powerful Traditional Unbinding Spell

Pain Relieving Spell

Simple and Effective Banishing Spell

FOR LOVE

Traditional Spell to See the Face of Your Future Husband

How to Speak to Any Living Soul

Spell to Dull the Pain of a Broken Heart

FOR SUMMONING

How to Respectfully Invoke the Immortals

Ritual to Call Someone to You

How to Summon Your Guardian

Problem Solving Spell

How I Speak to My Ancestors

The Ritual of Meeting the Fates

How to Use Tarot to Speak to Someone’s Higher Self

FOR VENGEANCE

Spell to Weaken an Enemy

How to Avenge Yourself with Tarot

FOR CONTROL

Spell to Make Someone Dream of You

Spell to Keep a Person Inside a Room

Spell to Discover if Someone is Being Dishonest

Spell to Ensure Peace Between You and Another

FOR GRANTED WISHES

The Spell to Make Your Wish Come True

Birthday Wishes Ritual

Rituals for Attracting Abundance

Wish Upon a Supermoon Spell

Solar Eclipse Rebirth Ritual

Hello lovelies! Today I would like to talk about a ritual that I created a while back. This is a ritual that is designed to grow or invite a certain aspect of your moon sign that you might or want to experience. Please keep in mind that this is a template and you have to do research on the herbs you’d like to add. As it’s impossible for me to write this ritual for every aspect of every zodiac sign. Before I dive into the ritual, I would like to reflect upon what a moon sign is.

What is a moon sign? Your moon sign is part of the big three (sun, moon and rising) in your birth chart and is the sign the moon was in on the day you were born. Often people also find significance in the phase the moon was in on the day you were born. As this is quite a complex subject, I will leave that part out for now, but definitely look into it if you’re interested in it! Your moon sign guides your hidden and emotional parts (think of the moon card in tarot). A birth chart calculator or an astrologer can help you find your moon sign and tell you more about the aspects that are relevant to you.

Why do a moon ritual for your moon sign? What if you want that extraverted character that signifies a Leo or Sagittarius but you’re a Cancer and very homesy. Can you then not do a working for a Leo characteristic? No, obviously you definitely can do that. In fact, if that’s what you feel inclined to do, I all the more encourage you to do so. However, what I have found within my practice is that the effects of working with your moon sign will be stronger. The energy of that particular sign already resides within you and your energy. Therefore it takes less energy to bring about these aspects, as they are already there and just need to be magnified.

The ritual

What do you need?

A candle in the colour associated with the aspect of your zodiac sign that you will be working on. E.g if you want to work on the inner-creativity of Leo you might want to choose an orange candle. If you plan on doing this ritual long term (e.g repeating it whenever the moon is waxing/new in your sign to magnify the energy and aspects) you might want to choose a big pillar candle instead of a chime candle.

Three types of herbs that correspond to the aspect, Taking the inner-creativity aspect again, you might want to pick herbs like cinnamon or sunflower petals. If you plan on dressing the candle with these herbs, make sure they are safe to burn.

Any type of oil that’s NOT an essential oil. However you can dilute an essential oil that’s one of your three herbs in this oil. Then dilute one drop of the essential oil in a good amount of the regular oil.

A candle holder or a fireproof surface/plate

A candle snuffer if planning to do this long term

Matches

Something to cleanse your items with (E.g smoke, sound, moon/sun water etc.)

Mortar and pestle (If you don’t have one you can use a coffee grinder)

A tool to carve the candle

Optional: A crystal that corresponds with the aspect of your moon sign.

Timing Depending on whether this is a hidden aspect or an aspect you want to grow, you might want to choose to work with either the new moon or the waxing moon in your sign. The new moon in your moon sign only happens once a year, while the waxing moon in your sign might occur multiple times in a year. Depending on this you might decide to make it a long term working or a one time thing that you repeat every year. Important however is that the moon is in your moon sign at that given time. To further add intention to it (and make it more complicated haha) you might want to do the spell during the planetary hour corresponding to the planet that rules your moon sign. Even better if the waxing moon in your moon sign occurs on the planetary day that rules that sign. E.g. for Leo you might want to work with the sun planetary hour and day. However this makes the whole ritual complicated and is absolutely not necessary, but just adds an extra layer of intention and energy.

Steps

Very important and not mentioned enough in spells: Ground yourself!! Even though we are drawing energy from the moon for this ritual, it’s still good to draw energy from the earth. This is so that you don’t deplete your own energy levels.

Cleanse the items you feel need cleansing by your preferred choice.

If you choose to use essential oil, now is the time to dilute it in the regular oil. After diluting it, you can charge it with your intention.

Charge each herb with your intention and place it in the mortar and pestle.

Grind the herbs down in a clockwise motion, as you’re seeking to attract. While grinding the herbs down, focus on your intention and your energy flowing from you through the pestle into the bowl.

Carve your candle with your intention from top to bottom. Keep it short so that it fits on the candle. Alternatively you can create a sigil for your intention and carve it into the candle from top to bottom. Top to bottom is done as you seek to attract something to you.

Now dress your candle with the oil from top to bottom.

Lastly dress your candle with the herbs from top to bottom.

If you chose to work with a crystal as well, now is the time to draw energy from it and put it into the candle or energetically connect the crystal to the candle.

Call upon the waxing or new moon in your zodiac sign. While calling upon the waxing moon, visualise (or whatever method works for you) your energy flowing from the top of your head all the way into the sky to the centre of the moon. Visualise the moon’s energy meddling with yours and then your energy drawing down the moon’s energy into you. Take your time with it and feel free to repeat it as how often you see fit. You can choose to use the following wording or adapt it however you see fit: I call upon the insert phase in insert zodiac sign, Hear my plead, lend me your energy of insert intention So I may insert something that your intention will allow you to do So mote it be! Here is an example of how it might look like for the example of Leo: I call upon the waxing moon in Leo Hear my plead, lend me your energy of inner-creativity So I may grow the burst of ideas inside of me So mote it be!  

As you have the energy of the moon in you now, add your intention to it one more time. This can be through visualising or any other method. Then let that energy flow from your hands into the candle. Really let all of it flow into the candle.

Now light the candle and meditate on your intention with it for a bit if you’d like. If you used a chime candle you can let it burn out. If you used a pillar candle, you can choose to let it burn for however long you like and then light it every time the moon is waxing in your sign.

🔥 High, steady flame - Yes.

🔥 Low, steady flame - No.

🔥 Short, weak flame - No.

🔥 Dancing flame - Needs more focus. Re-ground, concentrate, and ask again. 

🔥 Violently flickering flame - Strong no. Take this as a warning (if you are positive the flickering is not caused by any outside force).

🔥 Sputtering and crackling flame - There is more to your answer than a simple yes or no.

🔥 Dual-Flame - Thinking, wait for your answer. 

🔥 Flame leaning to the left - Yes.

🔥 Flame leaning to the right - No. 

🔥 Candle will not light - Now is not the right time to ask.

🔥 Candle will not go out - You are not done yet. There is more to your answer that you need to hear.

Little-known glamour witch tricks to weave magic into your daily beauty rituals.

These spells are subtle, powerful, and hidden in plain sight — perfect for charging your aura with charm, confidence, and magnetism wherever you go.

• Charm your reflection: Before you leave the house, trace a sigil for confidence or beauty onto your mirror with rosewater or moon water. Let your reflection “absorb” the spell.

• Enchant your makeup brushes: Lightly brush them over a charged crystal (like rose quartz or selenite) before applying your makeup to infuse your look with a specific energy.

• Lip gloss spells: As you apply your lip gloss or lipstick, speak your intentions softly (“My words weave beauty and charm,” “I radiate irresistible energy”).

• Perfume potions: Mix a few drops of essential oil (like ylang ylang or jasmine) with your perfume to enchant your aura with attraction, joy, or mystery.

• Color magic in your outfits: Even tiny things, like your socks or hair clips, can carry color magic. Choose secret colors based on your spellwork that day (pink for love, blue for calm, gold for success).

• Earrings as talismans: Charge your earrings under the full moon or over incense smoke. Every time you wear them, imagine them guarding your energy and amplifying your glamour.

• Aura mist: Make a body spray with rose water, a little vanilla, and clear quartz chips. Mist it over yourself before going out to leave an invisible trail of enchantment.

• Mantra while doing hair: As you style your hair, repeat: “Every strand glows with charm and power.” Imagine each lock catching the light and magnifying your magnetism.

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Here is a playlist that I like to go to that plays music for Sea witches and mermaid lovers. (I would normally have this playlist on my profile, but using music playlists aren't easy for my to understand and figure out anymore).

The songs are:

Waiting By the Sea by River Celt

Siren Song by Yuki Kajiura

Mermaids by Xandria

My Jolly Sailor Bold (Cover) by Acapella Onion

Credit: Sea Dividers by CafeKitsune