HONOR IN THE HUNT

Cleaning gets easier when you remember it's a thing you're doing to make your life less miserable, and not a thing you're doing as punishment

You can stop in the middle of cleaning!?

“Do it scared” but please realize that, if you Do It Scared too much and don’t let yourself rest + relax + have fun in between, you will fuck yourself up. If you “do it scared” all day every day, you will burn out badly and quickly. Sometimes this is temporarily necessary but please keep this in mind.

When you “do it scared” eventually you’re supposed to be less scared, eventually doing it scared is supposed to teach you the worst won’t happen, or it won’t be as bad as you think it is, or that the best outcomes are worth it, or you’re more capable than you thought you were. If you do it scared over and over and you’re still scared and you’re always scared, maybe it was never about pushing yourself, maybe something bigger is going on and what you really need is to be kind to yourself while you figure out what that is.

my brats in arms….. which f/o are you at your most insufferable with 🎤

I wish I could remember the name of the one I watched the other year that was really good. I think it had John lithgow in it? He ends up in this shitty state run facility after a stroke and it turns out another patient there has been faking dementia to torment the other residents and none of the staff believe the residents or give a shit, because again, state run facility. So the main character has to unravel the conspiracy with this dude all by himself and learns to be nicer to sick and poor people along the way. It was really good.