Just Things I Like

To my now thousands of followers.  I love that there’s so many pegging fans out there!!  I’ve gotten lots of mail and messages with similar questions, so here’s some information about me:

I’m in my mid-40s and live somewhere in the mountains of the western US.

I’ve been into pegging sex since 2008.

Yes, my avatar picture really is me – and yes, I do have great legs :-)

I peg him regularly, but I’m generally the submissive one.  We both just really enjoy switching it up at times.  He’s a natural dominant, but enjoys taking a break and finding some subspace (and those prostate orgasms!).  And I enjoy taking the lead from time to time, though it took me a while to get comfortable in a dominant role.  (But now when I put on corset/heels/cock and am holding my riding crop….well….)

We don’t play with cages/chastity.  To each their own - it’s just not our cup of tea.  (Though stories about hotwives turn me on…).  For me, chastity wouldn’t make him any more eager to please me (he’s very obedient if I’ve got the girlcock on), and I can always tie him up if I need more control.  Also, a cage would deny me the wonderful pleasure of playing with his big, beautiful cock (and getting blasted with that yummy hot come!)  

I’m sorry to say I don’t know any magic way to make a woman peg her man, get her into pegging, etc.   All I can say is communicate and be honest with your partner about your wants and needs.  Having a solid, trusting relationship where you treat your woman right in all aspects of life is probably the best start IMO. My man treats me so well – physically, emotionally, intellectually, domestically, sexually – that my desire to please him goes through the roof.   And you have to accept that it may be a hard limit for some.

What are some pegging ideas? -Send naughty texts all day about strapon play, then come home for a session.  Have him waiting and ready.  Something deliciously naughty about coming in, strapping up, and taking him.  Bonus points for coming in wearing it under a trenchcoat.

-When out in public (parties are great), constantly whisper teasing things about strapon play into his ear.  Watch the arousal on his face and in his pants. You’ll be dying to get home…

-Wear your strapon while watching TV.  Get head and other pleasures during commercials while the heat builds. I love wearing it under a naughty schoolgirl skirt for this game. 

-Before a girls’ night out, go to town on him femdom-style.  You’ll have great flashbacks all evening. 

-Say nothing, but fuck hard and make him talk about how much he’s enjoying it the entire time.

-You fully clothed, him fully naked nicely enhances the vulnerability/control aspect.   

-Have a big “fight” - get angry, push and shove, wrestle.  Have makeup strapon sex.  My aggression level skyrockets when we play this little game.

-Make a pair of naughty, too-short cutoffs from some old jeans.  Put on some high wedges, a sexy top, and wear the strapon so through the fly.  Find a full-length mirror for some sucking and fucking – the visuals are amazing!

-Pegging in front of a bunch of mirrors with him blindfolded.

-Film a session, then have him watch it and masturbate over facetime when you’re apart. 

Finally, yes, we may post anonymous pics/video of us someday…you’ll just have to keep following to find out….

Keep your kink on!

-Rati