SAUMYA_JOSHI

And when they ask you about me and you find yourself thinking back on all of our memories, I hope you ache in regret as the truth hits you like a bullet and you find yourself replying; “he loved me more than anyone else in the entire world and I destroyed him."

True???

Heyyy..... how are u.... tell me.... are u ok.... or not ok.... or feeling bad..... or good??

Actually I want to tell u guys something..... I have something in my mind.... for me its my useless thought... but u guys decide whether its useless or not....

Do u know what is the most important thing in life.... or which word is the most important in life.... since my early childhood to this point I realise that there is only one thing which u should focus on and that's iz

Control....

Yaa..... control is the only key to success.... when u r too angry... control your anger....

When u r tooo happy than u should control your emotions....... control your excessive love for someone.... control your mind is very necessary sometimes.....

So I think controlling power is must for everyone..... control is good for u.... good for your love once...

But............ how long.....??

Actually I also trying to find this..... how long.....

चलो अब कुछ कह ही देता हु यार..... कब तक कन्ट्रोल करोगे.... कब तक.... तो मेरे दोस्त तब तक करो जब तक आपकी लाइफ पूरी ना हो जाए..... अजीब है ना.... पर सच है...... क्या करे.... ऐसे ही बहुत से सच है लाइफ के जिनसे हम भागते रहते है.... पर हम जानते है की सच वो ही है......

पर हां अगर खुदा ने चाहा.... और आपको ऐसी किस्मत दी.... तो एक दिन कोई इंसान जरूर आएगा लाइफ में..... जिसके सामने आप यह कंट्रोल तोड़ पाओगे... और वो सब बोल पाओगे.... जो भी आपके मन में है... अच्छा हो या बुरा...... क्युकी वो आपको हर तरह से प्यार करेगा.....

पर यार..... जब तक ऐसा नहीं होता है ना... तब तक शायद कंट्रोल ही ख़ुशी है............

Tell me..... what do u think.....

©️Saumya Joshi (USELESS THOUGHTS)

https://joshisaumya.tumblr.com/

Some of the kindest souls I know have lived in a world that was not so kind to them. Some of the best human beings I know have been through so much at the hands of others, and they still love deeply, they stll care. Sometimes, it's the people who have been hurt the most who refuse to be hardened in this world, because they would never want to make another person feel the same way they have felt. If that isn't something to be in awe of, I don't know what is..........

Do u agree???

The me of today is different than the one of yesterday. The day that passed took a little of my hope with it, it left me with a little less hope. It is written all over my face, when people look at me today all they will see is the hope I lost. If it is not written in my face it is seen in the way I carry myself. It is seen in the way I move, more careless, like someone who has a little less to lose, but perhaps that is my paranoia talking......

Do you agree......??

*ईर्ष्यी घृणी त्वसंतुष्ट: क्रोधनो नित्यशड्कितः।*

*परभाग्योपजीवी च षडेते दुखभागिनः।।*

*अर्थात-* सभी से ईर्ष्या करने वाले, घृणा करने वाले, असंतोषी, क्रोधी, सदा संदेह करने वाले और पराये आसरे जीने वाले ये छः प्रकार के मनुष्य हमेशा दुखी रहते हैं। अतः यथा संभव इन प्रवृत्तियों से बचना चाहिए।

They that express jealousy always towards others, they who ever dislike all others, they that remain dissatisfied, angered , they that are always and ever doubting .. and those who live off others .. these 6 kinds of individuals shall remain ever filled with sadness .. whenever possible we need to save ourselves from such trend setters  ..........

तो यार सोचो जरा.... think about it.....

Heyy.... how are you.... forget everything yrrr... let's talk... tell me if u feel the same way...

You have soo many persons in your life now... right.... soo many friends.... family... relationships..... and everything is going on..... have u ever thought how many will be with u forever......do u have any answer??

And since your childhood... do u have all the same people around you.... no right? ....

This is life.... not everyone is permanent..... but you know what one thing is permanent which u can create with everyone.... think about it..... okk let me answer...

Beautiful memories

Memories... are the best thing to create with everyone..... in my opinion.... try to be funny.... polite... happy.... with everyone.....

बहुत से लोग आते है ज़िन्दगी में.... बहुत से लोग चले जाते है.... कुछ के चले जाने का हमें एहसास होता है.... और कुछ के चले जाने का तो बिलकुल नहीं होता है..... पर एक बात सोच कर देखिएगा... कभी कभी उस इंसान के चले जाने का भी एहसास होता है जो आपके लिए उस वक़्त कुछ नहीं था जब वो आपके साथ था..... और बाद में लगता है की यार.... कुछ तो था.... खैर मैं आपको किसी उलझन में नहीं डाल रहा हु.... मैं तो बस यह पूंछने की कोशिस कर रहा हु की आप यार हर वक़्त इतने उलझें हुए क्यों रहते हो.... अरे भाई जिस वक़्त जो इंसान सामने है उसके साथ बनाओ ना यादे..... अब जो चला गया उसके बारे में सोचोगे.... तो ना अब यादे बना रहे हो... ना उसके साथ बनाई थी..... अगर ऐसा ही चलता रहा तो आगे लाइफ में क्या सोचोगे...... की मैं बस उलझा रह गया....... किसमे??? खुद में या किसी और में.....................................

©️सौम्य जोशी (USELESS THOUGHTS )

https://joshisaumya.tumblr.com/

My dad once said, "Don't stay angry at anyone, even if they are. Life is uncertain. We may not have the same person after a minute and then, it'll be too late to realize your mistake and apologize." And this hit me hard.

My only relationship goal is to be with someone who motivates me to become a better person & show me the potential I don't see in myself.......

©️Saumya Joshi

Heyyy.... sometimes we feel so sad... or soo much frustrated bcaz of a person.... n the main part is that the person is the most important person in your life....

Sometimes we get confused in life that what should we choose....

एक असली समस्या जो आज की तारीख में है... वो यह है की हर इंसान जानता है की जो कुछ भी वो कर रहा है वो उस वक़्त उसके लिए अच्छा है या नहीं..... आगे का पता नहीं.... पर उस वक़्त वो अच्छा है की नहीं यह उसको पता होता है.... पर सब जानते हुए भी अगर वो अपनी आँखो पे पट्टी बाँध ले... तो परेशानी को कब तक आने से रोकेगा..... पर साहब कुछ परेशानीया ऐसी है जो जब तक लाइफ में है तब तक छोटी परेशानिया है.... पर अगर लाइफ में नहीं रही तो आपकी लाइफ को एक परेशानी बना देगी....

Seriously there are some questions which I also trying to solve.... how to determine which is important or which is not....

But yes in the end

The thing which gives you internal happiness is the only thing you should do.... only after doing this you will not feel any regret in future.... otherwise in the end, the thing which is right for you is the same thing which is wrong by the other person's point of view...

तो कब तक किस किस की सुनोगे जनाब..... कुछ तो यार अपने मन की भी सुनो... अगर मन ने गलती भी करा दी ना... तो भी आपको खुशी ही होंगी...

Think about it.....

©️SAUMYA JOSHI (USELESS THOUGHTS)

https://joshisaumya.tumblr.com/

What is love......

You know what love is the most beautiful feeling in the world.... love gives you hope... love gives you strength.... love gives you desire.... love gives you freedom....

I feel very bad when some people says that they don't want to marry or when someone says that love is a bullshit..... actually you guys are totally wrong......

Or maybe you have a bitter love experience doesn't mean that love is not a good feeling. Love is always a best feeling, you just need a good person to love. A person who can understands your emotions without you say any word to him/her. You don't need a perfect person.... you just need a trustworthy and loyal person.. who has a intention to spend his whole life with u....

And if you are having a fake relationship with a fake person than don't blame ' LOVE'..... than it's your fault or destiny...

Basically ' LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL FEELING WHICH HAS A BEST HEALING POWER.. YOU JUST NEED A RIGHT PERSON TO LOVE'

And one more thing no one is perfect in the world... try to be your relationship perfect

बन्दे परफेक्ट नहीं होते..... रिश्ते परफेक्ट होते है.....

So make a perfect... caring.... loving relationship and than you will feel a good change in your behavior towards the things....

And actually ' RESPECT THE LOVE' this is very important.... love is always a secondary thing..... first u need to respect the other person.......

I just want to say that never say that love is a bullshit.... or love is a timepaas..... or love is nothing..... if u r saying all these things than actually 'LOVE' is beyond your imagination...... and if u r saying that love is not a good feeling than my dear mark my words.... " one day.... one day the life will surely show u how much love is important.... and how's this feeling works..... ".....

लड़ना चाहता हु मैं अपनों से.....

पर कहीं जीत गया तो हार जाऊंगा....

Not everytime your winning gives u happiness.... sometimes it's good to lose.....

ऐसी जीत भी क्या यार..... जिसके बाद आप उन ही लोगो को खो दो जो उस जीत से भी ज्यादा महत्वपूर्ण थे....

Basically

'Winning is not must for everytime'

As I m feeling today... everyone should go with the flow

Nothing is permanent sometimes we lose the real people in life only bcaz of some other emotion less people.

Keep just one target in your mind n that's is

'Find the value'