Jolie Tera

date someone who staaaays OBSESSED with u, not just in the beginning

If you have a big, emotional, self hating meltdown every time someone tells you that you hurt them or crossed a boundary of theirs, then that means you're not a safe person to say no to - and that's something you need to work on. Even if you're genuinely just really upset that you hurt someone, if every attempt at communicating a boundary to you results in the person you hurt having to repeatedly reassure you that you're not actually a bad person, then you need to work on controlling yourself and taking constructive criticism.

you know what’s really hot.. healthy communication and reassurance

If you’re scared to love someone, that’s the best indicator that it’s real. It must be frightening that the love you’ve been craving all your life is finally right in front of you. You’re scared that if you wanted it, it’s yours. You’re scared that the unconditional love you give, you’ll receive in return. Ultimately you’re scared because, what if something goes wrong? Don’t be scared. What if something goes right.