Carter

my sister was bitching earlier about her one friend on welfare who was “getting paid taxpayer money to sit on her ass and do nothing” and I’m just… honey, you’re an unemployed army wife where do you think your money comes from

When you are dating a guy in the military there is so much pressure to get married was quick as possible. WAIT until you both feel it’s right. It’s ok to “just be the girlfriend” if that’s the stage you are comfortable with right now. Yes it’s hard especially because in the eyes of the military you “don’t exist unless you are a spouse” but making sure you go into a marriage for the right reasons may just save you in the long run. There’s nothing wrong if you decide that it’s not meant to be. The most important thing is that you both are certain about the path you choose and are making the decisions based on what’s best for you two and not what other people are making you feel. No one needs to validate your relationship but you and your significant other. No matter what you may be lead to feel.

8 years of Obama and the worst scandal involving the first family’s personal lives is that his daughter likes to smoke weed at music festivals. 9 days til Trump is inaugurated and we are finding out the Russians may have blackmail that he likes to get pissed on for sexual pleasure. Lord help us all.

my boyfriend broke up with me and my 80 year old 5 foot tall old indian grandmother told me that there are lots of men. i thought she was going to say “in the sea” but she said “they’re like flies” and made a disgusted face. she hates flies