Big List of BDSM Links
Social:
Communities:
Fetlife (Facebook for Kinksters)
Fetlife Novices & Newbies Group
Informed Consent (UK)
Datenschlag (DE)
Submissive Guide
People:
Lord Morpheous - author, sex-educator, photographer
Two Knotty Boys - rope bondage educators, authors.
Midori - educator and columnist on adventurous sexuality.
Fred Kyrel aka ShibariK - French Fetish photographer.
House of Tanos - BDSM blog, Master/slave.
Events:
Shibaricon- large rope bondage convention in Chicago.
Electronic Resources:
Articles
BDSM Identities - My own post on
Darr_Syn’s Post Dump - Collection of posts by /r/BDSMcommunity’s Darr Syn.
BDSM for Nice Guys - be a nice guy and a Dom.
Restrained Elegance - slave position lexicon (nice pictures).
Tutorials
BDSM-Chicago Tutorials - collection of tutorials.
NLA Columbus SM101 - intro to SM by NLA Columbus.
Bondage on a Buck - tutorials, homemade toys.
DIY Tutorial Collection
Leathercrafting Blog - leather, howto’s
Make a Bullwhip
Nylon Whip - Part 1
Nylon Whip - Part 2
Duck Tape Flogger
DIY Velcro WristCuffs
Rope Related:
Be Knotty - Wiki
How to Tie a Karada
Rope & Knots
Animated Knots
Shibari Nation Tutorial on Rope
Wiki Article on Shibari
Videos:
KinkAcademy - Free Video’s (paysite)
Pleasure Shop Collection - free, short.
Whip Making Tutorial 1
Whip Making Tutorial 2
Rope Related:
Two Knotty Boy Collection
Rope-Topia Collection
How to Tie a Shibari-Style Rope Shackle
Twisted Monk Collection
Hogtied Education Series
Blogs:
Press Button For Sex
Podcasts:
Erotic Awakening
The Dark Side
Books:
“How to Be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM”
“How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime”
“Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism”
“The New Topping Book”
“The New Bottoming Book”
“The Better Built Bondage Book: A Complete Guide to Making Your Own Sex Toys, Furniture and BDSM Equipment”
“On the Safe Edge: A Manual for SM Play”
“Sm 101: A Realistic Introduction”
“When Someone You Love is Kinky”
Rope Related:
“Rope Bondage 101” - Free PDF via kinkfriendly.com
“A guide for rope bottoms and bondage models.” - Free PDF via rope-topia.com
“Esinem Style Takate-Kote” - Free PDF via esinem.com
“Complete Shibari Volume 1: Land”
“Complete Shibari Volume 2: Sky”
“Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage”
“Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes”
“Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé”
“Bondage For Sex”
Stores/Retailers:
BDSMGeekShop - quality at a low price, cute, safe, pyrex, silicone
DHGate - cheap, low quality
Discount BDSM Gear - cheaper, okay quality
HalfwayCreations - leather, high quality
SeventhCircle - good, leather, affordable
Mr S Leather - various, high quality
Fetish Jewelry - jewelry
Tandy Leather Factory - leather, leather working supplies
StockRoom - expensive, high quality, various
NorthBound Leather - expensive, high quality, leather
Paddles Of Distinction - expensive, high quality paddles
Bound to Please - bondage supplies
Beautiful Bondage - bondage supplies
Freak Clubwear - clothing, toys
Carneval - impact toys
Jack’s Floggers - impact toys
Rope Related:
EMT Shears
Aja Rope - hemp, MFP, paracord
Arizona Bound - cotton, hemp, linen, lute
BDSMGeekShop - cotton, colored cotton, hemp
Beautiful Bondage (UK) - hemp, synthetic hemp, cotton, accessories, bulk orders
BindMe.nl (NL) - hemp, jute
Boss Bondage - hemp, accessories
Erin Houdini - nylon specialist, UV reactive colors
Esinem (UK) - hemp, jute, linen
HandmadeRope (CA) - variety of handmade rope
HempTraders - raw hemp
Jade Rope (UK)(US) - variety of natural and synthetic fibers, accessories
Jakara Shibari (UK) - jute specialist
Jaoman (CA) - hemp
KinkyRopes - specialty ropes, jute, flax, hemp, rope toys
KnottyBound - hemp, jute, bamboo, bulk orders
Madame Butterfly - silk specialist
Maui Kink - hemp, jute, variety of exotic natural fibers, accessories, bulk orders
McHurt (DE) - hemp, general bdsm
Naturally Twisted (AU) - jute, accessories
Omega Jute - jute
Ouchy (NL) - hemp, jute, synthetic hemp
Rawganique - raw hemp, hemp products
Ravenesque Rope - nylon, nylon/polyester blend
Renaissance Rope - hemp, jute, bamboo
Rope Extremes - hemp, MFP, nylon, synthetic hemp, paracord
Shibari Ropes - hemp, jute, suspension rings
TwistedMonk - hemp, accessories
Venus Ropes - hemp, MFP, nylon, accessories
Vintage Rope - hemp, cotton, MFP, accessories
Fun/Fiction/Entertainment:
KinkForKindle - Free Kink Ebooks
“Nana to Kaoru” - Cute BDSM Manga
Sysmtoys - games, toys, ideas
Tentacle BDSM Chair - yup
Fiction Authors:
Cherise Sinclair - Great BDSM Fiction Writer
[Masters of the Shadowlands 1] “Club Shadowlands”
[Masters of the Shadowlands 2] “Dark Citadel”
[Masters of the Shadowlands 3] “Breaking Free”
[Masters of the Shadowlands 4] “Lean on Me”
[Masters of the Shadowlands 5] “Make Me, Sir”
[Masters of the Shadowlands 6] “To Command and Collar”
Extra:
Please Punish Me! - Punishment Generator
The Carlilock - Chastity Belt Time-Delay Key Holding
Slave Contract Generator
BDSM Checklist
MojoUpgrade - Discover your kink Questioner
HumanSexMap - Exactly what it sounds like.
FemDomKing
Some very interesting places here.
