Jillian Jaymes

So, I got a message. The person wanted to know how could he get his wife to become a Vixen hotwife. Like my @queenofmyking362

Well, you don't. Either she already is, knowingly or not, either she will never be. And you can't get what is not there.

There are signs, as for instance her sexual drive, or the intensity of her kiss. But again, it's a matter of feeling. I could feel my wife as an amazing sexy Vixen. She could not and to this day she has not opened to her full potential.

We need to understand how have we been raised, how has sex been presented to us. In my case, my wife even, in her first mariage, thought that she wasn't good in bed. She did not like sex!! To explain to what extent can one be wrong. She is amazing!

Now, as I said, either she is, either she isn't.

What we need to do is create the right conditions so to allow her to open up to that side of her. And what's that?

Trust. Understanding. Patience. A safe environnement. She needs to be reassured, to be nurtured, to feel completely free and at the same time protected.

Communication is very important, crucialy important. Talk a lot, share and understand each other fantasies.

And above all, she is your Queen. Your Vixen. Not some fuck meat, bitch or slut. No humiliation should be tolerated, by or directed to any of you.