Vivit

shoutout to my homies who are deeply bizarre and have something wrong with them

I think at bare minimum all medical professionals need to make sure they are treating patients with more kindness and respect than grifters. if you go to a doctor and they treat you like shit, humiliate you, and send you home without any information on your body or access to treatment, then health-grifters' offers will start to feel more tempting by simply giving the most basic performance of taking you seriously and caring about your well-being. grifters should be condemned for manipulating and exploiting sick people, and doctors also play a role in whether grifts thrive or are successfully identified and rejected. genuine baseline human respect, and beginning a relationship with a patient by earning (rather than demanding) trust, goes a long way.

Engaging in kink is a form of being vulnerable—regardless of your role—and vulnerability should always be treated with a certain amount of reverence. It’s an honor and a privilege to be able to play with people, not a right or a given.

"Are you saying we should just allow people to have bad and scary thoughts and feelings??? And talk about them openly??" Yes. Yes I am. Your need to forcibly correct other people's thoughts and feelings into something more palatable and punishing them if they refuse to hide them is FAR more toxic than the hypothetical suicide joke you're getting mad about

Hypnotizing a transfem into not being afraid of needles so she can do her estrogen injections more easily.

maybe i am patient-coded. hmm...

It’s only just occurred to me that I’m into the “sweet attentive doctor” and “cold clinical doctor that’s acting like an actual doctor” type of medplay and not the “evil mad scientist cuts you open” typa medplay or medplay involving anything else that strikes a sickening feeling in my stomach (which takes heavy mentions of abuse and manipulation for me to be uncomfy). It’s honestly way harder to find the first kind because I have been SEARCHING and only can find the second kind 😭

kind of a sucker for nice/caring medplay rn .. I can be your favourite test subject I can give you better and clearer data than anyone else I volunteer for extra tests if it means you’ll pet my hair when im tired and calm me down when a test is painful or talk me through an injection or inspection or compliment me on my compliance . pleaseeeeee let me be your favourite test subject.

is hopeless platonic a thing

It fucking is