Jenny Allones ♕

#StudentNurses

You think all student nurses look good in these uniforms, don't you?

How neat and tidy, clean and smart

But behind these pretty faces are stuggles to find ends meet.

Let me tell you our story;

During vacants, we nap and eat our snacks. Mostly spend it playing spyfall and boring games, but not for us. Sometimes, we cry on public bathrooms and smile after "freshing up,"

when classes began on the month of June no one thought that the people beside, or even the ones behind them will also start to create memories that will last till finals or even the year after.

Its funny, some don't like the other, i guess intimidated by their character or just so, but months passed by so fast and these not-so-stranger-seatmates-anymore became the best of friends- unseparable & #hungry.

Those sad and angry faces began to get to know each other in such unexpected ways. Started with unplanned university parties, birthdays, group activities to sneaky night outs, movie theatres, and dirty groupchats.

These people helped me so much than anyone will ever know. This year was difficult and definitely a challenge but months were never boring with friends that will lighten up your every morning.

So, my advice to you, find friends that will contribute to your growth. Because in this course, there is no time to waste on people that will not stay with you in low and hard moments. Choose your friends wisely, or better yet, let the best people find you in your unplanned & boring days.

Ladies, you deserve to be treated with respect. You deserve to be given the attention you need. If your boyfriend starts ignoring you, you need to do something about it. Of course, breaking up with him is the last thing you will do.  You might want to try first to make your boyfriend realize your importance as a partner and as a woman. Here are some ways for you to do so:

1. Know your worth. First, you need to know what you deserve- that is, to be loved, cared for, and valued by your partner. Don’t forget that you are special. You are amazing.  Hence, value yourself. Don’t let your boyfriend keep making you feel that you are not someone important.  In fact, he is lucky to have you, so he should treasure you just as how you treasure him.

2. Tell him what you feel. Open communication is always the key to a good and healthy relationship. If you start feeling like he doesn’t value you anymore as his partner, you need to speak up. Be honest about what you feel. Express your grievances. Be specific.

However, you may not always focus on the negative. Emphasize that you’re telling all of these things to him because you want your relationship to work. You want to stay honest with him. By expressing your feelings, you are helping your boyfriend realize his lacking as well as giving him a chance to make it up to you.