5/ won't rmr him when he's not as "fuckable"/ and tries to better himself and make it up to the person who he failed but will spend the rest of time trying to make it up for it...I'll hope the same for myself..And sorry if this is too much and if you don't wanna post it, that's ofc okay, your blog is wonderful, you're so smart and insightful...I just needed to let it all out. And I know the post is from 2018, sorry if your views have changed. Have a great day.
Ohhh first of all since I’m so done with the fandom bullshit surrounding 1d, I have absolutely no problem talking about it here. I’m sorry and apologize on behalf of the disgusting larries if they made you feel like asking an innocent question is wrong.
Secondly, your message number 2 and 3 are not in my inbox.. so I didn’t get a chance to read your whole question but I think I got the gist of it. It’s about larry hitting your relationship too close to home, right? I feel you so hard on this, what got me so into them in the first place was that their story felt so real and tangible, even though they were so famous. It was like a fairytale story, except the really important parts, those emotions, they felt very real. And guess what? I used to relate to Harry too. His desperate cravings for attention and passion. Maybe that’s why I initially liked him. Of course, I could also see that it was unfair to Louis. And I completely agree with you, Louis truly deserved the best and I’m so sorry he had to go through all this shit. I guess we eventually realize that, looking at Harry, some things might feel similar because we project our feelings on why he made certain moves, but ultimately, he is a rich white man who doesn’t give a damn about any of us. He cares about the fame and money. Watching him, it was like he was living a dream that we wanted to live as well. Was he simply confident or brave, or was he evil, leaving all ethics behind to get to where he is? It’s on us to decide if we still feel a connection towards that kind of personality, or if we still agree to see some of that in us. You might be drawn to him, but it doesn’t necessarily mean you are similar to him. You said he should stop pleasing the young girls who will leave in a couple of years when he’s not fuckable anymore. The truth is, he doesn’t care. I think it got to him before, because he was an innocent child and went through all sorts of mental/physical abuse (no proof, but as far as I’m concerned, if you are that famous as a 18 year old, everybody will be up on your ass), but he ignores it now. He’s seen that money solves all your problems, all that abuse. Would you be okay with objectifying yourself the way he does, for the sake of money? Would be really be okay with doing everything that he did, just to get to where he is now?