There are many who reduce boys being feminine as a reduction of humanity. I get it. There’s a bit of an eroticism to the feeling of humiliation. That’s a fetish way of thinking of it. In reality, it’s just not the best way to think of it. All kinks aside, each to his or her own of course, I want to say that my girliness or your girliness is a positive movement for self. It’s not degrading. To me, that degrades women, and is just another aspect of toxic masculinity.
Being feminine isn’t about becoming “less than”. It’s a way of becoming more. That doesn’t mean that being feminine as a male means that you’re “more than” you masculine self. It’s just more. You’re adding to your humanity. You’re adding to your being. You’re adding to your personality. You’re bringing out something positive about yourself that many would say that you need to keep in. So, yes! I think that chasing girliness is positive. It’s an enhancement because it’s nurturing and growing beyond one’s status quo.
I’m not feeling the chattiness today as I normally do, so I’m going to leave it at that. I hope you feel positive about your femininity and not as if it’s a degrading wish.
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