Busy spoiling a needy princess

✨Intro Post✨

Hey there, sweethearts~~

I'm Jay, she/her, 21 years old, bisexual (but this is a wlw blog; men be gone), domme

Asks are open. DMs are currently closed.

ideas..... hmm i love when posts feel directed towards someone. the emotional component is what makes it so nice. perhaps you could tell me your fantasy about a crush or some such?

Look at that, a lovely little ladybug landed on my blog! Nice to meet you, sweet thing. Yes, that emoji is all yours.

I like that emoji! I'm pretty shy and awkward at the beginning but once I get comfortable I won't stop yapping and talking random things hahaha

And I'm glad that me being inexperience and virgin isn't a barrier, I'm kinda insecure about that because I met a few girls and once they found out that I'm not experience they just lost interest on me so you know, in this dynamic I thought it would be a problem.

Oh by the way, how should I refer to you? Any title or pet name? I've searching some stuffs so I'm learning about bdsm and consent is one of the most important things so I wanna make sure I do good with you!!

-your shy little anon🫣

It suits you perfectly then 😉 I can't wait until you get comfortable and turn into a yapper.

I'll have to let you know that people around here are more inexperienced than you'd think, darling and that inexperienced wouldn't matter to a person if they're willing to be gentle and patient with you, so it's really their loss. As for this dynamic, you have to start somewhere, gorgeous. Educating yourself and being patient (with yourself and your partner) is often more important than the experience. A person might be very experienced yet has no regard for their partner's needs or pleasure, one does not make the other.

Well, you'll see people around here use miss, ma'am or mommy if they're subs and prefer to use those. You could simply call me Jay if you'd like and if you want to be extra sweet later on when we get to know each other, darling and sweetheart are totally fine to use.

just wanted to ask how your day was going!! give you something sweet to respond to :)

xo,

@sapphic-wasteland 🐇

Hey, gorgeous

I feel like I've been giving the same answer to this question for the past week or so... my day was busy 😅 Although this one was just plain boring busy not the chaotic type.

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That's nice. Lmao, self-help books are so real. Tried it once but gave up. Any recommendations for romance fantasy?

Good luck with your finals. You got it miss. I finished reading dear Evan Hansen a while ago & currently reading a detective book of Carla Kovach. & from time to time fanfiction

Oh I started watching recently station 19 & high potential. You? Any shows or movies that you're watching or started?

Random question: What do you need for aftercare?

Last but not least. Take care of yourself 🫶❤️

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Awww it's alright to be a bit scared, cutie, just make sure you're in the right mindset and don't put pressure on yourself and use loads of lube. Hope you can enjoy them, sweet sunshine! (Also you're adorable, yes the suction is to attach it to the floor or wall or technically anything it can get attached to)

Oh yeah of course, a series I really enjoyed is the Cruel Prince series by Holly Black (everyone has zero morals, the female mc is bad ass and her solution to everything is murder, the male mc is an absolute simp, what's not to love) and another series that I read recently and enjoyed was Once Upon a Broken Heart (this one has the kind of male mc that hates the femal's guts and is a HUGE ass on the outside but will say "Who did this?!" in anger if he saw her hurt). Both of those are enemies to lovers btw.

Thank you, sweetheart. Oooh those sounf like such sophisticated reads for some reason, I've heard of Dear Hansen but have no clue what ut's about. How was it? Did you enjoy reading those books?

Hmmm I don't think I've heard of those shows but to be honest, I haven't watched anything new in a while. I'm currently rewatching The Gilded Age and of course I watched Hail Mary because of all the hype (which was totally worth it, such an adorable movie with stunning visuals)

so before i write anything it is the middle of the night and i am half asleep so um

yea

okay so

wait also the way you write is so mesmerizing did you know that? fucking beautiful

anyway

yes i mayyy have a lil praise kink :3 i do blush at being called... certain names... its not as intense as anyone ive ever talked to abt this stuff seems to think though, that scene you wrote earlier kind of maybe turned me the fuck on and i have been known to get people to say they're beautiful but it never seems to have the same effect on them and they just think it's weird and don't do it back its annoying (it would take a LOT to get me to say smth good about myself tho tbh)

my memory has gone blank and i cant remember what your reply said so im literally just winging it

the snack and drink think, dyou think a white monster would do? i dont eat much and i dont like eating so idk a snack to make me feel better would probably feel weird and make me feel worseee and i neverrrrr drink water i havent had water in months i much prefer pepsi and monster

(this is gonna sound kinda depressing but as hot as it is telling me i need to take care of myself and it's my responsibility, ive not taken care of myself since i was like seven so ill probably be fine. totally not fucking up my brain for the rest of my life. totally not.)

i cant take anything seriously in this headspace butttttttt i really do appreciate you taking the time to reply to me thank you <3

i cant remember what i was gonna sayyyyyyyy

im so sorry im so bad at this. um. what's your favorite song? tell me about your day :3

idk what im doing

random question... knowing what you know about me rn what aftercare would you suggest for me? like you mentioned water and a snack so that?

do i sound really rude or am i being paranoid?

see this is why i dont go on my phone at night im so sorry if you've read all this

im gonna go before i humiliate myself further

have a nice dayyyyy idk if i already said thattt if i did have a double nice dayyyyyy

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also! i did not read this because i know if i do it's all gonna get deleted sooooo uh blame typos on my shitty autocorrect totally not my fault

Oh is that so? One of my favourite things is making cuties blush. 😉 Thank you, that's such a nice compliment, glad you like my writing so much!

I'm going yo deviate off the aftercare topic because I can't ignore the fact that you seem to be surviving off soft drinks and little food which is very dangerous. I'm sorry you don't like eating, I don't know what your history is like or how your mental and physical health are but this is not the way to nourish your mind and body, little star. If you had a dear friend who had thr same lifestyle would you worry for them? Would you try to help them? If the answer is yes then perhaps you should also try to help yourself, darling, I know it's not easy but you have to learn to take care of yourself. How about you try have a cup of water everyday?

Now to the aftercare topic, a white monster would most certainly not do, sweetheart. You could have an electrolyte drink if you don't enjoy water but not something carbonated and most definitely not an energy drink. Snacks you could always ease into, it could be fruit, a popsicle if you need something cooling, something salty like goldfish or pretzels. There are a lot of options and it's not a full meal, just a little something to replenish your energy.

Knowing what I know right now, I would first remove all soft drinks from you vicinity and make you eat, little star. I'll be honest, I usually try to make sure my play partners are (mostly) healthy people and take care of themselves. If they didn't do it before they knew me then I make them do it once we know each other. So let's say you did that, you started drinking more water and less soft drinks and you started eating more and more everyday, I would definitely include water and a snack in aftercare, I would offer you a lot of praise and tell you how wonderful you were during the scene, if you need to get cleaned up I'd make you do that and then come curl up under your blanket and finally I'd tell you to take a little nap if you need it.

"It's okay, baby, you can stop thinking now, I've got you. Let me take care of you."

Slowly pulling every last thought out of her brain, until her pretty head is empty and her eyes are glassy, legs falling wide open on instinct, ready to give me whatever I want.

"There she is, my pretty girl. That's it, babygirl, just listen to my voice and let me make you feel good."

You're too sweet. Thank you, little anon, l'm glad my hot af and tender posts have you hooked deep. 😉 It seems the yearner in me has a strong hold and won't just let me write pure, unemotional smut.

Perhaps you should come back with suggestions for me to write? I seem to be out of ideas these days, and any other of my lovely anons are welcome to do that too

Btw I'm 21 years old and my pronouns are she/her, I want to claim an anon, can you choose any for me?

(my gosh I'm too shy for this hahaha)

Hello, sweet little shy thing

Welcome and thank you very much, I love making pretty girls such as yourself speechless with my writing. Very glad you're enjoying them, gorgeous.

No, sweetheart, being a virgin or being unexpereinced don't matter to me (nor do they matter to most people here, you'll find that they actually make you more desirable to some 😉). It's perfectly alright to be lost as long as you take your time to learn about BDSM and how to be safe and respectful in this space then you're quite alright in my books.

I wish you a fabulous Wednesday (or what is left off it)

Do you still play guitar? If so, what are you currently learning?

Same with reading, what genres do you like to read?

Anything (fun) planned upcoming days?

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Thank you, darling

Oof it has been a while since I've picked it up, if I'm being honest, life is too busy right now but the last song I was trying to play was Only by RY X. It's very soft and the song has such a calming timber and soft vocals that it makes me want to pull someone close to me and never let them go.

Oh I actually enjoy a very wide genre when it comes to reading, I've read and enjoyed almost everything (except self-help books, still trying to figure those out). During my university days when I am already reading too much scientific things and am tired of real life, I tend to go for romance fantasy, especially enemies to lovers, that genre has my soul.

I unfortunately have my finals coming up soon so nothing fun planned but I might go out for a cup of coffee today and study in a small bookshop that has that option.

i think its so cool about the dom and sub space thing, how it can do that to someone after even a short scene its awesome

id so happily give aftercare to a domme, id get really shy and nervous but id still love to do it, asking if shes okay and saying how much i loved it and how much fun i had and pouting if she doesnt drink enough or something, it would be amazing, but i dont think ill ever be able to ask for aftercare for myself, i cant even think of what i would want

as for how it makes me feel, just normal. it feels like i just did some gay shit and now im sitting on my bedroom floor thinking.

is it really supposed to feel that good? ive only done real life stuff a couple times, its usually online so i dont know how much of a difference that would make but is feeling numb afterwards genuinely bad?

this is starting to feel like a therapy session so no pressure to reply or anything and have a nice dayyy :3

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Of course, this is a very important part of bdsm and while yes, my reply was detailed, there are still a few things I didn't mention so I believe it would be really beneficial to you if you read more into it from multiple points of view.

You're very sweet being so eager to provide aftercare, little star, any domme that gets to play with you is a very lucky one. But you should now that you need to ask for aftercare too, it's your responsibility to take care of yourself and put boundaries and basic needs so that the domme can then take over and do their work right. It's not an optional thing or something that you can ignore. If you're unsure what you need, start with the simple, basic things, have some water with you and a light snack. Before playing tell the domme that as aftercare, they should remind you to drink and have a snack and if you find that you need something else after you're actually done playing then you'll mention it then.

Would it be right to assume you like praise, sweet thing? That's another thing you could ask the domme to provide; let them praise you once you're done, you also deserve to hear how well you did and how good your submission made the domme feel. If you'd like to feel safe and desired as a person not just a sexual partner (especially if it's a long time play-partner who you have a bit more of an emotional connection to) then it's also 100% fine to ask for that.

This very much applies to online play too, sweet thing, you need aftercare in these situations too! Personally, I will always ask anout what kind of aftercare a sub needs before engaging sexually with them in an online setting and I ensure that she will provide it too because while yes, online isn't as intense as a physical session would be, it still takes a toll. A person still craves that softness after the intensity and often times roughness of a scene (especially if degradation or overstimulation is involved).

I'm so sorry you feel numb after some of your sexual encounters, angel, it saddens me that you feel that way. It's not bad per say but it's not good either and it's definitely not what we're aiming for in terms of a bdsm session. I won't lie and say it doesn't happen, it does, especially if either one of the people have past trauma or are still trying to figure out their sexuality or anything related to their pleasure or even if their mind simply decided to shut down and just float in a whirlwind of overthinking or unpleasant thoughts. However, usually, if a domme and sub have good communication and have set a good foundation of rules and expectations then that numbness can be avoided more often than not and it can instead be replaced by a very beaitiful feeling of happiness and satiety and this wonderful sense of warmth that you can't elsewhere.

Also I hope you had a lovely weekend

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Oh? Little sunshine has been busy hmm. Care to tell me what those things are? And you're still to try your vibrator... I do hope to hear how that goes, pretty thing. 😉

Your chest rises and falls with each breath, eyes fighting to stay open, trying so hard to follow my command and watch how I ruin you in the mirror. You can't turn your head away, one of my hands is wrapped around your throat, thumb coming up to rest against your jaw, forcing you to look forward, to watch me as I slowly circle your clit, so slow, it's almost painful.

A gasp escapes your lips when I brush my fingers against your slit, then you whine when I push just the tips inside before quickly pulling them back out, using your filth to make your clit wet.

"You look so good, bunny," I whisper against your ear, pupils blown wide and mouth grinning in that way that let's you know I'm starving and ready to feast.

"Mommy," you whine, breathless and small, both of your hands grasping mine, not moving them. You're not trying to encourage or stop anything, you're not trying to push them against you, you know you're not in control here, you just need to feel me, need to anchor yourself to something as your mind floats away.

"Such a pretty sight, aren't you, bunny? Legs open wide, dripping so much you've made a little puddle of desire, I can feel your clit throbbing against my fingers, pet," I softly bite your ear, trapping the soft skin between my teeth as you gasp then moan, trying to close your legs. "Poor thing, can't close your legs, bunny, can't look away, has mommy got you trapped?" I kiss down your neck, feeling every noise vibrste against my lips.

"My pretty bunny, aren't you, baby?"

You whimper, legs shaking against mine, trying to fight them. But you can't do much but squirm against me, not when I've hooked my legs on yours, forcing you wide open.

You moan low in your throat, nodding as your eyes lose their focus, your hold on my wrists softening. A sharp slap echoes in the room followed by gasp and your eyes shoot open. I keep my hand on your cunt, letting the warmth radiate to you, soothing the sudden sting of my palm.

"Answer me, bunny."

"Yes, mommy."

Another slap reverberates and this time your moan is loud and keening.

"Yes what, bunny?"

You try to shake your head, a blush colouring your cheeks as you look elsewhere and my hand immediately comes down again; loud and wet. You choke back a whine, body writhing against mine for just a few seconds before you give in.

"I'm your pretty bunny."

"Mmm, yes, you are," your hips move, trying to grind against my hand before I pull it away, "So beautiful, aren't you, bunny?"

This time you whine so low and pathetic I can't help but chuckle, your hands moving to cover your face.

"No, put them down."

"Mommmyyy."

I answer you with two more spanks, adding a third when you don't move fast enough. You yelp at the last one, breath stuttering as a few tears gather in your eyes.

"Answer me."

"I- I am."

Your eyes are locked on mine in the mirror and you know I'm waiting for you to say the full statement. My hand moves and you immediately jolt, expecting another spank but this one isn't fast. I wait for you, wait to see if you'll say what I want you to say. Let you relax fully against me before I strike again.

You sob as another spank lands, body shaking now as you finally give me what I want.

"I'm beautiful, mommy, I'm beautiful."

"There we go," I smile and my fingers finally move to your hole, two of them pushing in without warning. Your body arches and thrashes, sobbing and whining and thanking me as I give you what you've needed this whole time. Walls pulsating around my fingers as I thrust inside you, clit throbbing against my palm.