doin' the most

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

the version of you from five years ago would be genuinely amazed by what you’ve handled since then. sit with that for a second

daughter (non-practicing)

sister (deadbeat)

my family was rich running our aura farm before castro and the other communists nationalized swag

they should invent a body that feels normal to be inside of

i think avoiding everything is going to save me for real this time