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So that gives you an idea of the swatches (and the gifs literally showing you them)

To find them search 'Ja5minel5' in build buy bc I couldnt have them under tv's for logisitical reasons (does that sound believable, in all honesty it was stopping them from working and i'm too dumb to know how to fix it)

TV 1 Mesh is by SLOX : HERE

TV 2 Mesh is by Abbxsimsx: HERE

TV 3 Mesh is by Joyceisfox: HERE

TV 4 Mesh is by Kardofe: HERE

They work best for screenshots as it is just a singular screencap overlay, however it will work for gameplay, your sim will just be staring at the image instead of the sims 4 tv.

Enjoy! <3

ꜱᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ 2: ᴘᴇʀꜱᴏɴᴀʟɪᴛʏ ᴅᴇᴇᴘ ᴅɪᴠᴇ

Internal Srengths

Primary strengths:

How it manifests:

Do they recognise it as a strengths:

External strengths

Primary strengths:

How it manifests:

Has this strengths ever backfired on them? How:

Hidden strengths (ones they don’t recognise in themselves)

Primary weaknesses

What is it:

Is it a flaw or defence mechanism:

How to they hide it:

How their weakness effects others

How their behaviour Echoes in a room:

Are others protective or exploitive of their weaknesses:

Psychological Profile

MBTI Type:

Enneagram type:

Core childhood wound:

How this derived their behaviour:

How it manifests in

Conflict:

Decision-making:

Daily Routine:

Big 5 Personality traits each on a 1-5 scale)

Openness:

Conscientiousness:

Extraversion:

Agreeableness:

Neuroticism:

Do any traits clash with each other?:

Character Archetype

Which archetype do you think they are:

Which archetype would they think they are:

Emotional Landscape

Attatchment style:

How it manifests

In conflict:

When needing others:

Do they test people of cut them off quickly:

Primary fears (physical)

What is it:

Triggers:

Physical responses:

Primary fears (Emotional)

What is it:

Specific triggers:

Physical response:

How they rationalise this fear:

Core memories: Happy

What happened:

Associated textures/smells/songs

Would they share this with others:

Core memories: Sad

What happened:

How it shows up in dreams/habits/reactions today:

Would they rewrite it or cling to is as part of their identity:

Object of significance

What is it:

Condition of the object:

What this condition represents:

Associated memory or person:

Beliefs and philosophy

Core beliefs:

How they justify their morals:

Do they act in line with their beliefs or just speak them:

Do they believe in fate:

If not, how do they explain the unexplainable:

Confidence and self perfection

Where their confidence is real:

Where their confidence is armour:

Do they crumble when unseen or rejected:

How they see themselves vs how others see them:

Personality anchors

Comfort scent:

Comfort sound:

Fav quote:

Motto they live by (conscious or unconscious):

What others would write in their yearbook:

ꜱᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ 3: ɢᴏᴀʟꜱ ᴅʀᴇᴀᴍꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ᴍᴏᴛɪᴠᴀᴛɪᴏɴꜱ

Everyday Motivations

What gets them out of bed:

What small things they look forward to:

What they romanticise:

What they procrastinate:

Current goals

Surface level goal:

What it’s really about:

Obstacles in their way:

What they’re willing to sacrifice for it:

Long term dreams

Big dream they’ve never spoken aloud:What haven’t they shared it:

Is this dream inherited or self born:

What would achieving it mean to them:

Shame and pride

What they’re embarrassed to tell others:

Why is this shameful to them:

Source of pride:

What accomplishment do they cling to when feeling worthless:

Do they overplay or minimise their accomplishments:

Regrets and pain points

Petty regrets:

Large scale regrets:

Which ones keep them up at night:

Source of misery (the unscratchable itch in their soul)

Admiration and envy

What they admire above all else:

Person who embodies their unmet potential:

Trait they mock in others but secretly envy:

ꜱᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ 4: ᴍᴇɴᴛᴀʟ ʜᴇᴀʟᴛʜ ᴀɴᴅ ᴄᴏᴘɪɴɢ

Inner world

Do they daydream often? About what:

Do they have recurring dreams/nightmares:

Do they keep journals or internal records:

Mental health

Diagnosed conditions:

Undiagnosed conditions they might have:

How long diagnosed/untreated:

Do they deny it or medicate it:

How it manifests for them specifically:

Coping mechanisms

Healthy coping strategies:

Unhealthy coping strategies:

Crisis response:

Who they call in a crisis:

Intelligence and emotional processing

IQ (estimated):

EQ (estimated):

How they intelligence isolates or connects them:

Do they weaponise their emotional intelligence:

Humour style

What makes them laugh when no one else does:

What humour makes them uncomfortable:

Do they use humour as a defense mechanism:

ꜱᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ 5: ʙᴇʜᴀᴠɪᴏᴜʀᴀʟ ᴘᴀᴛᴛᴇʀɴꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ʜᴀʙɪᴛꜱ

Quirks and surface tics

Fidgeting habits:

Signature expressions or sayings:

Fav filler words:

DO they doodle, hum or zone out:

Do they talk to themselves:

Any rituals before sleep?:

Daily habits and routines

Morning routine:

Evening routine:

Work/productivity habits:

Self care habits:

Bad habits

Sensory tics:

Toxic coping:

Avoidance ritual:

When do they allow these habits in front of others:

Behavioural tells

When stressed:

When content:

When scared:

Normal state:

Verbal Mannerisms

Do they use rhetorical questions!

Sarcasm level:

Do they complete sentence or often drift off in thought:

Precise or vague in speech:

Do they often mirror others:

What they say vs what they don’t

Truth they always avoid:

What they overstate to distract:

Are they brutally honest or do they sugar coat:

Physical presence

How they move across a room:

How much space they take up:

Are they aware of their physical presence:

Posture and body language:

Expressions of love and care

How they show love:

Do they know their actions make others feel loved:

What they need to feel loved:

ꜱᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ 6: ʜᴏʙʙɪᴇꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ɪɴᴛᴇʀᴇꜱᴛꜱ

Consumption Habits

Fav genre:

Media they hate:

Guilty pleasures:

Fav video game (if any):

Fav social media platform (if any):

What kind of fan are they (casual, obsessive, nostalgia)

Current hobbies

Public hobbies (ones they don’t hide):

Secret hobbies (tell few to no people):

Hobbies they wish they had more time for:

How they feel whilst doing hobbies:

Skills and talents

Natural talents:

Learned skills:

Skills they’re working on:

Skills they’ve abandoned:

Favorites

Favourite Colour:

Comfort colour:

Favourite movie:

Comfort movie:

What movie encapsulated their vibe:

Fav tv show:

Comfort tv show:

Fav book:

Comfort book:

What book encapsulates their vibe:

Fav band/musician:

What song encapsulates their vibe:

Fav season:

Fav holiday:

Fav food:

Fav drink:

Fav place they've ever been:

Place they want to go:

Describe their 'vibe' in 3 words:

ꜱᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ 7: ᴘʜʏꜱɪᴄᴀʟ ᴀᴘᴘᴇᴀʀᴀɴᴄᴇ

Defining features

What a police sketch would capture:

Parts of their body they highlight:

Parts of their body they hide:

Sensory Identity

Signature smell:

Textures they often wear:

Textures they never wear:

Sound of their voice:

Pace of their speech:

Laugh description:

Facial features

Face shape:

Nose shape:

Eye shape:

Eye colour:

Lip shape:

Eyebrow shape:

Eyelash length/thickness:

Body details

Height:

Weight:

Body type/shape:

Skin tone:

Skin details:

Tattoos:

Piercings:

Facial hair:

Body hair:

Style and presentation

Clothing style:

Signature detail:

How much effort they put into their appearance:

What’s habit vs performance:

Personal preference vs societal pressure:

Self perception and others reactions

Why do they dress (to disappear, seduce, intimidate etc)

Their opinion of their appearance:

Their most attractive feature in their opinion:

Body part the obsess over:

Are they conventionally attractive:

How they handle compliments:

How they handle stares:

The vibe they give off

What music would play when they’re introduced in a movie:

What do people assume about them based on looks:

Are those assumptions correct:

What type of people are drawn to their vibe:

How do they react to that attention:

ꜱᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ 8: ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴꜱʜɪᴘꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ꜱᴏᴄɪᴀʟ ᴄᴏɴɴᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴꜱ

Firsts

Fav memory with a friend:

Fav memory with a partner:

Fav memory with family:

Person they wish they could reconcile with:

Person they wish they could forget:

Trust and loyalty

Person they trust most:

Why they trust them:

Was this trust earned or given easily:

How they test trust:

What they wish they could to for this person:

What’s holding them back:

Conflict and animosity

Person they hate the most:

What they wish they could do to them:

How this hatred affects their daily life:

Family dynamics

Biological family structure:

Relationship with parents/guardians

Mother/maternal figure:

Father/paternal figure

Quality of relationship:

Siblings

Number and ages:

Relationship quality:

Birth order effects:

Extended family

Family members they avoid:

Family secrets or dynamics!

Chosen family:

How their chosen family differs from biological:

Friendships

Best friend:

How they met:

What they value in this friendship:

Friend group dynamics

Size of social circle:

Role they play in the group:

Group activities:

Childhood friends still in their life:

Friends they’ve lost and why:

How they make new friends:

What they need from friendships:

Professional relationships

Work/school relationships:

Mentors:

People who believe in the

Professional reputation:

Romantic relationships

Current relationship status:

Relationship history:

What they seek in a partner:

What they believe love should look like:

Relationship patterns:

How they behave when in love:

How they handle breakups:

Deal breakers in relationships:

Social expectations and roles

What others expect of them:

Roles they’ve earned vs inherited vs resent:

Where they belong:

Where they pretend to belong:

Non human bonds

Relationship with animals:

Significant objects:

Connection to places:

Spiritual or supernatural beliefs:

ꜱᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ 9: ʙᴀᴄᴋɢʀᴏᴜɴᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ʜɪꜱᴛᴏʀʏ

Childhood and upbringing

Where they grew up:

Type of community:

Socioeconomic background:

Families reputation in the community:

Were they known, invisible, praised or feared:

Childhood environment

Sensory memories:

Neighbourhood dynamics:

Safety level:

Cultural influences:

Defining incidence

Stories they retell:

Stories they never tell:

Pivotal childhood moments

When they realised something was wrong in the world:

When they realised there is good in the world:

First time they felt truly seen:

First major disappointment:

Education and development

Educational background:

Academic performance:

Favourite subjects:

Teachers who influenced them:

Extracurricular activities:

Notable people from their past

Person who made them feel they could become something:

Person who made them feel small:

First crush:

Childhood hero:

Early role models:

Major accomplishment

What they minimise:

What they overplay:

Trauma and loss

How they carry it:

Do they use it as a weapon, warning or wound:

How it’s shaped their worldview:

Life changing moments:

Biggest regrets:

Moments of triumph:

Current life context

How they view their past:

What they’ve learned about themselves:

What they’re still learning:

ꜱᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ 10: ᴄᴜʀʀᴇɴᴛ ʟɪꜰᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ᴅᴀɪʟʏ ʀᴇᴀʟɪᴛʏ

Everyday Details

Go to comfort food:

Go to comfort song:

Current fav possession:

Current obsession:

Living situation

Current home:

How they feel about their space:

Personal belonging that matter most:

How they maintain their space:

Financial reality

Current financial situation:

How money shapes their decisions:

How they treat expensive things:

Financial goals or fears:

Relationship with money:

Daily life and routine

Typical structure:

Morning person or night own:

How they spend free time:

Daily stressors:

Daily joys:

Current challenges

Biggest current problem:

What they’re working on improving:

What they’re avoiding dealing with:

Support systems they have:

Support systems they need:

Future outlook

Where they see themselves in 5 years:

What they’re most excited about:

What they’re most worried about:

Changed they want to make: