in the midnight

this would be such a nice room to have :)

like im trying to explain to a doctor that i struggle to walk into town without getting excessively fatigued to the point of being sick, and he goes "but you don't have any physical disabilities" like i know man. but getting out of bed is an uphill battle most days and i haven't seen the sun in a month. it's not hard to put two and two together.

you’re not a bad person if you do something that you don’t particularly enjoy because, for example, it makes your partner happy, but always remember: you have no obligation to engage in sexual activities that you don’t fully like and enjoy. 

and you don’t ever, ever need to justify that - if your partner has an issue with “It makes me kind of uncomfortable” or “I don’t really like it”, then that person does not deserve a moment of your time, in or outside of the bedroom. you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone; you don’t have to meet anyone’s standards of acceptable vs. unacceptable activity (or lack thereof); you don’t have to force yourself to be comfortable with something because of any perceived political connotations of performing or refusing that act.