Nobody Cries Over Spilled Tea.

It’s no secret

I hoard emotions, baggage, and all things from the past.

Why the hell not?

Why can you not change behaviors by loving them harder?

Why is is so fucking hard to love the broken? Why is it so hard to break their generational curses? Why can’t you love them back to health?

Because they’re sick. - sick of themselves- and love of another person cannot cure that sickness.

You can become a temporary medicine, but they always go right back to being the same narcissistic asshole you grew to know.

Ladies and gentlemen- quit trying to change people! Show them love and support - but people do not simply change because you love and support them. They change when something inside them changes.

That is all

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Some are lions

Some are wolves

Some are sheep

If you don’t know which you are

You’re a sheep

Boss the fuck up and handle your shit today

-I hope you raise your boys allowing them to show emotion

-I hope you teach them showing emotions doesn’t make them weak nor a “sissy girl”

-I hope you talk to them often about their feelings and know what bothers them

-I hope you teach them to always talk about it when if it hurts

-I hope you teach them to cry. Like really cry it out, cry with them, let them cry in front of you often, teach them it’s okay to cry in front of others

Mother of girls

-teach your girls to show emotion

-not to hold feelings inside

-that crying doesn’t make you weak

-teach them that boys showing emotion isn’t weak, not to laugh at their boyfriend or girlfriend for showing emotion, but to embrace that they’re comfortable enough with you to show emotion to you

You see .. society is bent around men being shut off and emotionally unavailable at no actual fault of their own.. but because that’s how they were brought up, it’s how they saw other people doing, it’s how society pushes… when in all actuality .. showing emotion is absolutly not a fault.