Bella Phoenix

When a conflict occurs, a relationship is taxed. One of the key ingredients that attract many people to one another is a sense of magic and mystery. As you start feeling closer to someone special, there can be an intuitive intimacy between the two of you which is often missing with others. You seem to be reading each other's minds. Unfortunately, this very factor can eventually cause a relationship to deteriorate. You may start believing that if your mate truly cared about you, she/he should instinctively know what you want; consequently, you may be reluctant to explain your rights and desires. People need to be informed, explicitly told, and if they are not, the longevity of the relationship will be threatened.

Reminder that “tard” and all variations of it (“fucktard,” “libtard,” etc) are literally just a “PC” way of calling someone a r*t*rd and I’d really appreciate it if my mutuals stopped putting words like that on my dashboard.

ur twenties are weird. i have the priorities of a kindergartener again. i don’t know what in the hell is going on EVER. i like colors. i like soup. i want to take a nap

love how sometimes i’m like “oh, i should put this somewhere safe so i don’t lose it and know exactly where to find it later!” and about a month later i’m standing in my ransacked room trying to get into past me’s mindset like some kinda amateur historian on one of those history channel treasure hunting shows trying to get into the mind of a nineteenth century pirate to figure out where they hid some possibly nonexistent apocryphal loot

having memory problems is like being an archaeologist of your own life and it isn’t nearly as exciting as it sounds