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Unpopular take; Yes, about Hudson from a François fan. Note, I enjoyed Hudson a great deal until I saw more and more of him outside of the show. He doesn't need me as a fan, my opinion means 0 and i know it. I tried liking him but i just...don't. Drawing swastikas, writing AIDS, mocking gay people, mocking black people, mocking the brutal murders of 6 million + people for being Jewish, promoting being a "bottom" as a feminist trait etc. isn't "teenagers being teenagers". It's being problematic human beings who target everyone & act like bullies. 16, 17, & 18 yr olds know better. Using the excuse of "trying to fit in" is removing all responsibility & pinning on others. They all did it for "fun". He's also still friends with a number of these people. Does everyone make mistakes growing up? Sure. We all do. Life is hard being young. Do the majority of us have the moral ability to know right from wrong ? Absolutely. Do we make a choice on who we befriend and how we behave? Absolutely. Fitting in is no excuse for cruel choices. Blaming others is a cope out. I grew up in an incredibly volatile family; drugs, alcoholism & violence galore. Was it normalized growing up? Yes. I grew up thinking everyone's families were like mine. I had no clue until I was older that watching the adults in your family do drugs & get arrested for violent crimes wasn't typical so to speak. I grew up, I saw it and I didn't do it. Any of it. Was i pretty lonely? Absolutely. I was, but I'd rather have been lonely than associate with people doing wrong. Family or classmates..didn't matter. It was my choice to be them or do better. I picked better. Because we do have the instinctual sense of knowing right from wrong & we are responsible for our choices. It's too easy to blame everyone around us instead of accepting that we decide who we are. Are some people easily influenced ? Sure, but we still make our choices. It's on us. Hudson wasn't a victim, he made choices and kept making choices and keeps making choices that are, well, wrong. Sorry, but even the way he acts like Heated Rivalry is all about his "bottom eyes" is dismissive. His fans have spent months and months attacking François & trying to dig up nonexistent dirt on him because face it, he's always been a good person. They are biphobic and homophobic in their attacks on him & Connor. He fed delusions that were part of the initial attacks on François. They excuse hating François because he's white (as if Hudson doesn't have a white father..) but whenever something comes out about Hudson they make a million excuses. He and his fans play the pity me victim card and its nonsense. He's screwed up over and over and over and that's on him. Take responsibility for being a lousy person and grow from it. Be better. Do better. He can. Anyone can take responsibility and grow from their choices but not if you opt to play victim to your own choices.

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Papi, Jesus 🥵🔥

I forgot what I was doing but it can’t have been important…