Astraeus

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These are possible results from not being truthful to your child:

-If male, he feels isolated as the lack of biological male model isn't acknowledged.

-If gay male, he feels ashamed and embarrassed as mothers pretend to understand his experience.

-They're ridiculed in school for not knowing the difference between male and female. Resentment grows when biology knowledge is taught.

-Trust issues and insecurity towards therapy if used through his life to build a false ideological narrative he abandons as an adult.

-If female, mimicry issues arise leading down the wrong path of transition pursuit. Resentment grows again when the problems solve as it's statistically impossible for trans-like parents to have a transexual child.

-If female, her confusion on sex and gender standards leaves her taken advantage of. Predators exploit ideological logic gaps, specially those in regards to physical vulnerability.

-If gay female, she feels embarrassed and isolated, relating to dynamics her mothers display as they insist they aren't alike.

-Child repeats sexuality politics or mental illness rhetoric, child services are called or custody to a family member is issued as home is deemed unstable.

-Sexual misconduct acts out of ignorance such as peeping, they violate others boundaries to contrast reality with belief as they find lack of consistency.

-Sexual misinformation: believing that males and females are the same, practicing unsafe sex and risk of young pregnancy under the pretense of same sex relationship.

-Child embraces religion, believes parents are dishonest and hopeless according to doctrine.

-They embrace science, believing they're deluded and out of touch with reality. Both scenarios create psychosocial distance.

-Child witnesses mothers insisting on ideology to others against visual evidence such as female presentation and traits such as breasts, embarrassment and intelectual disconnect begin.

There are many more examples, for that person or people's sake I hope none become true, regardless if you can empathize.

Not building a fact based environment for a young person can be extensively detrimental. This sort of instability grows in key stages as social and interpersonal exposure increases. This may lead them to go non-contact or distance themselves if they feel living at home can't go alongside living in reality, once stable adulthood is achieved. They will form their own opinions about your lifestyle, even about where the line draws on how you choose to be or have to act as.

In short:

Are you able to accept reality, as selflessly as being a mother requires you to?

Shut the fuck up.

We LOVE waking up to homophobia/transphobia on our blog!! We are in a GAY relationship, with a HUSBAND, we are dating a MAN and are TRANSMASC. We are a T4T GAY couple. So first of all, shut up :)

And second, a child, a baby, our baby does not owe us "support", we are their parent, we are the ones that are supposed to support them, not the other way around, that's why we are grown adults raising a child that doesn't know any better. And that is also a child that would be born and raised in an extremely queer environment that had grown to adapt their parents' mental illnesses in a healthy and therapeutic way. You don't get into arguments with your cishet parents about how you as their child don't support them, neither do any of the kids from queer families that we've worked with.

Children are the first ones to accept things, specially if it is something they had been raised around (this applies both for good and bad things). Prejudice is learnt, prejudice is taught, you are not born with prejudice.

The most confident person on our system is probably Power, specially since she got so much better from her trauma with the person that played so hard with her. She's incredibly powerful and resilient and they believe in themself (sometimes way too much). When meow says that it believes meow is amazing, it means it.

There is a difference between emotional, or more like, mental loneliness, which our DID would help combat due to part of it coming from the trauma that was the extreme isolation problem that we have suffered from since childhood.

But physically loneliness is something that we still get, because even if we can talk to each other, even if our system is "big" enough, we cannot really go out place to hang out with each other, we cannot give each other a hug, a kiss, we cannot support each other on physical tasks. There are a lot of things that, at the end of the day, we will notice that we are physically, alone, and thus we will get lonely, even if our system exists. Believe me, many of us wish we could be physically there when someone who is fronting is going through a difficult time or hurting the body.

For example, we literally just spent the last couple of hours building the furniture for our new places with Husband and friends, a task that would have felt extremely hard, lonely and sad if we were physically alone, even if we have each other a system. It went well, by the way. It was a nice experience to not have to deal with a physical blow like this all by ourself, like we used to at our previous abusive home.

Also, very lovely when one of my hypersexual pupils decides to drunkily share a very vulnerable feeling about himself and he is met with "you're utterly disgusting". Guess what! He thinks that too! Congrats! That's why he called himself a disgusting word, anon!

Thank you so much! We're really trying our hardest to give him a good life... Starting with a good summer since it's the first one we are spending not apart! We would say it's going nice so far, even with the little hiccups (a lot of them being caused by our poor-planning friends being around but oh well).

We really hope he feels comfortable in our future house, we're trying our hardest to give him the best... Even if he has to deal with stuff like our family. It also feels so nice to be able to have communication face to face the entire time, it makes things just... So much easier, it is incredible.

We hope we can take him to nice places too, we will see what we do together for our birthday! So exciting to have him around during our birthday! We have a double date planned with our friends for today after work... We're so nervous but happy, we're even wearing a pretty dresses (the boys in pretty dressed system being excited about being a boy in a pretty dress, what a shock).

But things are going great, just living together, playing Tomodachi together, doing new things together... Being able to sleep together... It's like this is what we were supposed to do...

We do, yes, but it is true that it's a plan for our future. First he is moving in with us, to the house we are currently in the process of buying. But he had planned something else for our future.

We would love to be able to move to the islands where he is from once we start a family together, because we want to raise our child/children there (and also as a way to take them away from our family). It is true that we have more difficulties for moving with our work, that's another reason why this is a plan for the future.

Definitely, yes.

Sunny really likes snacking on white rice, Reki finds comfort in his energy drinks, overall there is also an affinity to very dark very bitter chocolate... Probably specially the host, to be honest. There is also Killua who likes snacking on ice. And there are probably others I can't really think of right now because of being too tired or not being close enough with them specifically myself. But most of us also have favourite foods, so in the end we are all pretty distinct...

It feels nice to have his arms wrapped around us holding our chest in his sleep, his face close to ours, his breath on our cheeks and ears. He just feels nice and calming overall.

Death of a son, memory of a daughter.

Look into the blinding eyes of the spirit that walks around the forest at night and be overwhelmed by the sorrows those pools of moonlight carry, the soul of a son that never got to be.

Rejection, dissapointment, all the expectations that extended in strings towards the child, plied into a rope that wrapped tightly around their neck and pulled, constantly pleading, screaming, repeating like he had an answer, like he could ever voice an answer while they took hia breath away, crushing his windpipe. "Where is my little girl?"

Now the ghost haunts the forest, looking for the souls linked to the rope around his neck, shining a light of hope into their lives, protecting them with his antlers as they looks into each others eyes, realisation that, even if they failed and betrayed him until death did them part, the unbeating heart of a son still seeks to protect its breatheren. And in that trance, he forces them to look into what could have been what they lost, that if it wasn't for them, this wouldn't be just a lost soul hopping between trees. If they protected him, if they saved him, maybe things would have been different.

If only they weren't forced to realise the life that could have been when it was too late.

So when you are lost in the middle of the night, alone and cold, and Thanatos looks at you in the eyes piercing into the soul that once loved an imaginary little girl, will you be able to look back without tears in your eyes? Will you have the guts to say you did everything you could? Can you really say it wasn't your fault?

The concert went very well, actually!! We went somewhere that wasn't too packed, so neither we nor Husband or friends would get hit and everyone was very nice and respectful and careful. We were wearing some headphones to block the sound and also ear plugs, so it wouldn't become overwhelming or hurt; and visually it was amazing. It really was a nice experience, we were wearing our trans flag and had some nice comments thrown at us about it and it was very hot, but no one made weird comments in how we were dressed because of it. The concert experience was genuinely heart warming.

NOW THE TRIP EXPERIENCE WAS SOMETHING ELSE ENTIRELY.

It started well, we were just tired and didn't sleep much, the train was fine and we could doze off for a couple hours. But trying to walk around the city felt very unwelcoming for a queer alt young group, the only place we felt comfortable at was literally at Five Guys while eating (it was good, we left a card with a drawing there) and then the city was just unfriendly for walking, forcing us to take taxi/Uber.

After the concert, there was a signal inhibitor that lasted two hours after the concert that didn't let us contact the Uber we had booked days prior until we got many kilometers away (the streets were closed anyway, so it's not like the driver could have gone there either). And when we finally contacted the driver, we got two sentences in to explain the situation and the hung up and cancelled the trip 15 minutes before pick up just because they realised they could charge more now. We were so tired we broke down crying and had a meltdown while the others, angrily, tried to call a taxi.

And when we finally got to the airport and had another meltdown, crying profusely for a while until we were so exhausted we were just falling asleep on our feet. We remember going in the plane, sitting down and then hearing the sound of "the plane will be landing in 15 minutes". Then it was just getting home and crashing for sleep, hours later we found out the trip had triggered our sickness.