One of the things we're doing in the human rights office is going out to a town outside Accra called Dodowa and visiting communities in the surrounding villages to tell them about domestic violence, rape and defilement (the Ghanaian term for paedophillia). It's a very simple presentation that explains what all these things are, that they are illegal and what a victim and the community should do. The villagers mostly don't speak English, so we have a community man come with us to give us a bridge to the villagers and to translate. As you can see from the pictures, I think his translation is more colourful than the original English (I think he uses far more analogies as well). He also gives a talk about STIs complete with pictures which is not from the faint of heart.
Ā In one of the communities, there were a lot of people from further east who didnāt speak the local languages, so we had me speaking in English, Daniel translating in to Ga and a second man translating into Ewe.
Ā We go back to the communities a while later to see if they understood and retained the information, which so far they have. I thought people would be annoyed and wouldn't come (when I read the presentation I thought theyād think we were trying to teach their grandmothers to suck eggs), but in the first village we went to EVERYONE listened to the talk, even the little children. I don't think we'd let little kids listen to something like this at home.
Ā It sounds daft, but there's so little education, especially in the older generations, that people don't know that rape and paedophilia are wrong. It's just never been said to them. When we went back and talked to them about what they thought about the presentation, they said it was really useful, and they wanted more information about more topics like conflict management and conversation skills for marriage, intestacy, hygiene and so on and so on. They asked for posters, or for us to come to their church so their children and teenagers could hear the talk.
Ā We talk about the Ghanaian Domestic Violence Act 2007. Marital rape is legal here (but itās only been illegal at home for 20 years, so Iām not going to throw stones), but the act criminalises sexual abuse so that itās rape in all but name. Some of the men weāve given the presentation to canāt wrap their heads around the fact that their wives have the right to refuse them sex. It made me want to bang my head against a wall.
Ā We talk about incest and how itās wrong. We talk about how children under 16 canāt give consent and any sexual contact with them is wrong and illegal. The people in the villages often live in one room houses and apparently, incest is common. Just because theyāve never been told itās wrong. Daniel, who translates for us, makes a point to stress at every community that fathers should not be bathing their daughters. And that their mothers shouldnāt let them bathe their daughters.
Ā If thatās enough to make you want to cry other issues raised include the following:
1.Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā āIf you know that a father is having sex with his daughter, should you call the police?ā Yes. Yes you should.
2.Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā āIf a woman and man are living together, but they arenāt married and she tells him that she wonāt have sex with him until he asks her parents for permission to marry him, then after a while he forces her to have sex, is it rape?ā
And, from the same woman: āHow can I find out if I have gonorrhoea?ā
I am really, really hoping she kicked him out. I just wanted to give her a hug.
3.Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā When asked whether the presentation had meant theyād seen that there were some problems in their community: āWhen a girl goes into a manās room, perhaps because she is asked to put something there, and he closes the door and is with her as a man is with a woman. That doesnāt happen anymore.ā ⦠Good.
Ā They have some great legislative frameworks here ā the domestic violence act is one of them ā but thereās little awareness and there are no rights without redress. I have to say that Daniel is fucking awesome. He gives out his phone number at every talk and tells them that if they donāt want to go to a hospital or the police they can call him and heāll make the calls. He is a big guy and heās obviously fiercely protective of his community. I would not want to be an accused paedophile and have him show up on my door.















