November Charity- Fuck Cancer
We are proud to have Fuck Cancer as our charity of the month for November. Magdalena Wosinska chose the charity this month. Below is a short video about Fuck Cancer and a message from the founder, Yael Cohen.
In 2009 my mom, Diane, was diagnosed with breast cancer. This shook me to my core and has, quite obviously, fundamentally changed my life. This was the first time I saw my mom as mortal. And the first time I saw my dad cry.
I was very involved in momâs treatment and recovery, to say it lightly. I was a research machine; I read every book, blog and article I could get my hands on. This is indicative of my generation. We help how we can, with what we know, and we know the digital space and social media. So I made sure that FC harnessed the power of the youth and invited them into a conversation that no one really includes us in.
After her first surgery I made mom a shirt that said Fuck Cancer. To me, the shirt said, âYes, I have cancer â but no, I wonât go down without one hell of a fight.â It said, âI am not a patient â I am a survivor.â It was something that I thought sheâd wear privately, at home, while recovering. I should have known better. Being the firecracker she is, as soon as she was well enough to get her hands over her head and put on a t-shirt (more accurately, let me put one on her), mom wore it everywhere.
My mom isnât the kind of woman to say fuck, let alone wear the word fuck, so I was shocked when she wore it in public. But that wasnât the most shocking part. Peopleâs reactions were! People hugged her, high fived her, wanted to hear her story and share theirs. I always joke (but am secretly very serious) that I knew we had something special when strangers would hug mom â it takes a hell of a lot for a stranger to hug another stranger in our society. These two words were really powerful, and resonated far beyond my family. It allowed people to be brave and vulnerable and I wanted to do good with it. So I started Fuck Cancer.
Why didnât I just support an existing charity? I thought about it, hard. But ultimately, I found most existing cancer organizations were research-focused, which is incredibly important, but not my fight. Iâm not a researcher so couldnât contribute scientifically and couldnât raise the billions of dollars needed to find a cure. I can, however, change the way society perceives cancer; from something we wait to get and pray thereâs a cure to something weâre actively working to prevent, actively looking for and finding when itâs most curable.
Early detection is what saved my momâs life and itâs where I felt I could make a real impact and really help people.
Everything we build is for our community; itâs what theyâve told us they need and what we anticipate they will need. Beyond education, I wanted community. I wanted to create a safe space for people to say what they were actually feeling, not what society told them they should be.Â
Thank you to the unbelievable community of highly active, motivated, and passionate supporters whoâve grown with us. I canât wait to see what we create together in the coming years.