you need to be more normal about fwb. no, fwb don’t strip you of your dignity. they are not unhealthy. sexual relationships are not bad. it’s not weird to want them and not romance. friends can fuck. you don’t have to be involved romantically to be intimate with someone. that includes all sorts of physical touch because you are also not normal about platonic non-sexual touch. it’s not weird if friends cuddle, sleep in one bed, hold hands or kiss. friends can be affectionate with each other. it doesn’t mean they are romantically attracted to each other. nor does it mean they will ever be in a romantic relationship. you need to be more normal about touch and sex in general.

can't stop thinkin abt them getting off just rubbing their cock against my face. across my lips n cheeks, slick n messy holding me by the hair. fuuuck just cum all over my face jesus Fuck need immediately

lowkey anal is so hot as a trans guy cause ure telling me uve got a hole dedicated to sex but ure such a fucking fag u wanna take it up the ass anyway? oh look at u little gay boy

how to give uourself top surgery.. annd search. okay okay. how to communicate feelings.. mmmm maybe not.. how to confess your feelings.. hmm.. no too tricky.. how to uh.. two men scissoring.. ooo

Big fan of de-centering the orgasm from sex and kink. Yes, it can be a fun goal to cum and an awesome experience, I'm not taking away from that. But human bodies are just poorly designed. It hiccups randomly. It can't consistently 3D print the organs right. The brain organ locks up from anxiety randomly. If it doesn't touch grass it gets angsty. It just is allergic. So just focus on having fun, what pleases each other, and broadening what "pleasure" even is beyond sexual sensation.

okay but are you going to be understanding if your dom is a little nervous and not as suave as you'd expect their first few times when domming you? are you going to make them feel comfortable enough to slip into the role without making them feel stupid about it? are you going to accept that real sex is not always as rigid as it would seem in text posts or your fantasies and that it is okay if there are some unserious moments in between the intensity? do you understand that we are all just people having fun and we need to be gentle with each other when showing this vulnerability?