𝐒𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐘 𝐊𝐈𝐃𝐒 𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 — finding out their s/o is skipping meals
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at first, woojin wouldn’t really understand. he knows that lots of people struggle with eating, but he just never expected that you would be going through something like that. despite the initial shock, he wants to be as supportive and helpful as he can be. if that means getting you professional help, then he will, but he also doesn’t want to scare you or make you regret telling him. he might watch you a little more carefully from now on, offering you bites off of his plate and buying snacks for you whenever he can, just so that he knows you’re eating something.
channie would take this really seriously. he never makes you feel weird or messed up for struggling with skipping meals, but he does ask you to try to be honest with him and tell him when you’re having a hard time. he doesn’t want you to hurt yourself. chan is such a care giver. he would feel so heart broken watching you struggle with something like this and not being able to do much to help you. he would do everything he could to comfort you and let you know that he’s there for you. even on your bad days, he just gently holds you hand and reassures you that he’s still proud of you for trying.
he knows it’s messed up, but minho’s first reaction is anger. it comes from a place of fear, fear that something awful could happen to you, that maybe he hasn’t been taking as good a care of you as he thought he was. he would have to take a breath, not wanting to say anything to make it worse, but also not really knowing what to say to make it better for you. he didn’t know how to comfort you and that frustrated him. ‘i’m sorry i didn’t notice,’ were the words he finally said to you, blinking tears away. ‘i should have noticed and helped you.’ he knew it didn’t make sense to blame himself, but he did. he felt like he let you down, but he was determined to be there for you from now on.
binnie would feel sad for a little while, but he would quickly realize that he needs to focus on you! he would put so much energy into researching eating disorders and learning about the strategies you can use to get better and he can use to help you do that. he wants to be as supportive as possible and he’s going to do that through his actions, since he doesn’t always know exactly what to say. so even if he doesn’t always know how to comfort you with words, he’s always there to cuddle you when it’s hard.
being an idol, hyunjin knows the pressure to look perfect. but he would feel deeply saddened to know that you inflict that pressure onto yourself. part of him would wonder if it was his fault, if he had influenced you to hurt yourself like this in some way. he might become a touch more protective after you told him how you were having a hard time eating regular meals. he would want to have a long talk with you about it so that he could figure out how to best help you recover. if it would help to have someone to eat with you, he would happily do that, or if you needed him to text or call with reminders he would do that too. because he loves you very much and he doesn’t want to see you hurting yourself.
it would just about break jisung’s heart to hear that his baby was being so mean to themself. we all know this boy is a teddy bear. he honestly might cry just because he loves you so much that your pain feels like his pain too. he would be SO supportive. even on your worse days, he’s always encouraging and sweet and he never treats you like you’re fragile or there’s something wrong with you. he would want to know what things are triggering for you, so he can avoid them, but he wouldn’t bring it up unless you do.
the way he would be so upset. like you would not live this down. of course, he’s super understanding and sweet and he gets that eating isn’t easy, but he’s not going to let you get away with skipping meals. he doesn’t want to force you or make you panic, so he lets you decide what you eat and how much of it, but it has to be something, three times a day. those are your rules. and if your habit was really bad, he would expect pictures of everything. your health is important to him and he’s not taking any chances, even if other people think he’s a little overprotective.
from lix (1:34 pm) – y/n, i swear, if you didn’t have lunch today i’m coming down there.
from lix (1:35 pm) – if you’re not going to feed yourself, i will.
at first, seungmin would just be really glad that you trusted him enough to tell him, but then he would feel kind of angry and sad. he hates that you don’t love yourself the way that he does and honestly he does have days where it’s frustrating trying to understand where you’re coming from. like why can’t you just eat? it leads to a fight between you, which seungmin feels really guilty about. like he knows it’s not your fault, it just really hurts him seeing you not eating properly and he feels like he failed you. ‘i never should have yelled at you, sweetheart. i’m so sorry.’
this is one thing that jeongin would take really seriously. he’s pretty low key about most other things. like he’s not nearly as over protective as some of the other members (looking at you, felix), but he cares a lot about you taking good care of your health. when he realized that you were skipping meals, he would get angry. not at you, but at himself for not noticing more quickly and taking better care of you. most of the time, you’re both very independent, but now he would baby you a little. he makes sure you’re eating every meal. he would go so far as to make you send him pictures of what you’re eating. he doesn’t want to be overbearing, but he also doesn’t want to see you hurting yourself by not eating properly. he would never yell at you, but he would scold you if he saw you slipping into old habits.
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