that's one awkward butch!

I need you guys to understand something about kink before you go any further. Trying to enforce unproblematic kink is fucking ridiculous. It shows me that you don’t understand what kinks even are and how they develop. For a LOT of kinky people, the reason why something is hot in the first place is that it’s fucked up. Shut up about “stop doing military forcemasc :(“ because if you don’t keep that same fucking energy with cnc shit and other problematic kinks, you’re being performative and you know it. The vast majority of these people KNOW the military is problematic the same way they know rape is bad and the same way pup play fuckers don’t fuck dogs LMAO. The point of the kink is that it’s fucked up. That is the reality for a lot of kinks. This weird “only healthy soft happy kinks are valid” sentiment I’ve been seeing is so fucking harmful. Focus on the person. Are they glorifying the military actually or are they just sexualizing certain aspects and dynamics of it? Do they actually support the military? If they don’t, it’s roleplay the same way pet play isn’t zoophillia and cnc isn’t rape. You are not getting your brownie point. Also there is a very valid reason trans men may gravitate to soldier imagery considering it is often done in reclamation of an archetype that we are often barred from. It is RARELY done in glorification of the actual institution but more that a lot of trans men see themselves as soldiers of an ongoing struggle that we are forced into. Some trans men relate to a masculine archetype of a collective struggle or battle. You are blatantly choosing to misunderstand something to feel like the smartest person in the room. Shut your stupid mouth. Nobody is supporting the military. Keep this energy with everything else or shut up. If you figure out somebody does genuinely support the military THEN you can go ahead and chew their arm for it. Just like we don’t go around assuming people who post gore kink and cnc kink support rape and violence.

Reblogging this because this just isn’t cool!!!! My original post was a silly shitpost that literally did not mean anything. Please go ahead and jerk off the military stuff be my guest!!! I’m 100% sure I’ve done so before too!!! If I rubbed you the wrong way by posting this, I’m sorry but you could’ve just scrolled and it was SO immature to just start insulting me. As you said, it’s very possible I AM just a silly 18yo, and if that’s the case, why can’t I have my silly immature views? Moreso for you to tell me to “shut my bitch mouth” and to continue to call me a purist and make assumptions of me that you have no possible way of knowing is far more immature than any stupid comment I can make on your kinks.

I need you guys to understand something about kink before you go any further. Trying to enforce unproblematic kink is fucking ridiculous. It shows me that you don’t understand what kinks even are and how they develop. For a LOT of kinky people, the reason why something is hot in the first place is that it’s fucked up. Shut up about “stop doing military forcemasc :(“ because if you don’t keep that same fucking energy with cnc shit and other problematic kinks, you’re being performative and you know it. The vast majority of these people KNOW the military is problematic the same way they know rape is bad and the same way pup play fuckers don’t fuck dogs LMAO. The point of the kink is that it’s fucked up. That is the reality for a lot of kinks. This weird “only healthy soft happy kinks are valid” sentiment I’ve been seeing is so fucking harmful. Focus on the person. Are they glorifying the military actually or are they just sexualizing certain aspects and dynamics of it? Do they actually support the military? If they don’t, it’s roleplay the same way pet play isn’t zoophillia and cnc isn’t rape. You are not getting your brownie point. Also there is a very valid reason trans men may gravitate to soldier imagery considering it is often done in reclamation of an archetype that we are often barred from. It is RARELY done in glorification of the actual institution but more that a lot of trans men see themselves as soldiers of an ongoing struggle that we are forced into. Some trans men relate to a masculine archetype of a collective struggle or battle. You are blatantly choosing to misunderstand something to feel like the smartest person in the room. Shut your stupid mouth. Nobody is supporting the military. Keep this energy with everything else or shut up. If you figure out somebody does genuinely support the military THEN you can go ahead and chew their arm for it. Just like we don’t go around assuming people who post gore kink and cnc kink support rape and violence.