has anyone else noticed they still havent invented a pocket dimension where time stands still where one can go to sort their shit out? so you just have to either try in this go go go ass world to find the time, or die unresolved? just something i've noticed.

"In times of radical transition—as people lose confidence in how to be together, uncertain about how to read each other and incompetent even to their own desire, wanting everything hard to be “post-” already, with few skills for bearing transition— their default modes of managing the inconvenience of other people, including themselves, suddenly intensify in awkwardness and generate frictions at all kinds of scales." —Lauren Berlant, On the Inconvenience of Other People