inside my mind

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britishmuseum.org

www.louvre.fr

www.museodelprado.es

collections.vam.ac.uk

www.moma.org

www.khm.at

www.digitalsculpture.org

www.tnm.jp

artsandculture.google.com

collections.lacma.org

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reina sofia collections / multimedia

rijkysmuseum collections

tokyo national museum e-museum / collections

detroit institute of arts collections

yale university gallery of art collections

harvard art museums collections

whitney museum collections / videos

israel museum jerusalem collections

jewish museum new york collections

walker art center collections

indianapolis museum of art collections

mfa boston collections / youtube

figge art museum collections

american folk art museum collections

museum of international folk art collections

art institute chicago virtual visit / collections / articles

van gogh museum virtual visit / collections

mfa houston collections

- spend less time on places that can numb your mind, like scrolling through your phone. the world isn’t about numbers and notifications and deadlines. be more in touch with the world and notice beautiful things. look at people and things in a softer light.

- don’t act a certain way just because it’s trendy or most people do it. it may be more “relatable” but it won’t make you feel happy. don’t be cynical or judgemental anymore.

- clean or reorganize your things. throw out things you don’t need or things that make you feel down. if you have emotional baggage, accept it and let yourself move past it.

- spend time alone. think about the person you are around others and your true self. think about the people you spend time with - if they make you feel happy, or if you can be yourself around them.

- if you’re letting yourself get badly treated, it might be because you feel unworthy. this might mean you have a low perception of yourself and you need to learn to love yourself more. when you start loving yourself the world will seem kinder and the universe will seem to be on your side.

- don’t overthink or worry too much about things. you likely won’t even remember it in a year or even a month. have faith that you can do whatever you’re afraid of, because you can.

- don’t let yourself be defined by what you lack and your past. do not define yourself with your negative traits. do not compare yourself with anything. focus on moving forward.

I made a big list of do’s and don’t’s for little. I thought it might be helpful for new people. 💕 All of these are just ideas. Feel free to reblog and add more tips. ✨

- give them good morning/good night messages. message them first. make good conversation. DO NOT LEAVE THEM ON READ/OPEN!!!

- having a little is basically like dealing with a little kid, you’re going to have to explain a lot of things to them. also treat them like they are little. being big is a lot of work!

- If your little is excited about something, try to be excited with them. Even if it’s something small.

- try to get them warnings first before you give any punishment

- YOUR LITTLE IS GONNA WANT ALL OF YOUR ATTENTION!!!

- if your little is upset, try to make them feel better or talk about it. Don’t let them sit there sad.

- the small things matter to littles. Do things that would make them happy like learn the names of their stuffies and remember which paci is their favorite.

- Littles may forget things so make sure that they eat and do what they need to do

- you have to learn how to properly deal with a temper tantrum. Don’t go straight for a punishment.

- Littles can be a handful but you can’t get frustrated with them because they are in little space.

- Littles depend on their caregiver so you have to take care of them. They look up to you

- Never ever make your little feel like a bother. That’s the absolute worst feeling for them.

- if your little did something wrong, explain to them why it was wrong and why they shouldn’t do it again

- ask them about their day and how they are feeling. its really makes them feel like you care about them.

-make your little feel special

- if they are trying to help, LET THEM. DO NOT MAKE THEM FEEL STUPID FOR CARING ABOUT YOU TOO.

- Littles care about their caregivers too. if you are having a bad day, talk about it with them too. let them try to fix it.

- A dd/lg relationship is a two way things. you can’t just expect your little to do all the work.

- surprise them with little messages when you are thinking about them. I promise it will make their day!

- be excited to talk to them! they probably missed you a lot while you were gone.

- I know for a fact it makes their day to talk to you. hopefully it makes you happy too that you are talking to your little one.

- if you know doing a certain thing will make them happy, DO THAT THING.

- your little is supposed to be important to you because I know you important to them.

- ACTUALLY TREAT THEM LIKE A LITTLE. Tell them “you are too little to do that by yourself” or “only grownups can do” its makes us feel even littler.

- give them rewards every once in a while for being good. they deserve it

- if you make a promise, YOU HAVE TO KEEP THAT PROMISE! DON’T GET OUR HOPES UP FOR NOTHING!!!

- if you say that you are gonna do something, YOU HAVE TO DO IT! DON’T GET OUR HOPES UP FOR NOTHING!!!

- whatever you do, DO NOT EVER IGNORE THEM! I DONT CARE HOW MAD YOU ARE!!!