السلام عليكم

Kill the part of you that believes it can’t survive without someone else.

How to Create a Winning Relationship

I learned not to trust people; I learned not to believe what they say but to watch what they do; I learned to suspect that anyone and everyone is capable of ‘living a lie’. I came to believe that other people - even when you think you know them well - are ultimately unknowable.

I hope we never need whisky to talk about our deepest scars or darkest secrets I hope we can talk about these over a morning cup of coffee and see each other in the bright sunlight I hope we never need darkness to hide

God moves in mysterious ways.

Dear daughter I know your thoughts,when you stand near the mirror and complain about your “hair is to thin” “your thighs are too large” and that “ your nose is weirdly shaped” I hear it. I know your thoughts on your stomach and your pimples that seem to get only worse when it’s your time of the month. I hear your complaining about wanting a bigger butt and a smaller waist. I see you stalk random people on social media who look like you wish you did. I hear you compare yourself to other girls.i even heard your tears that night the boy broke your heart and you thought it was because you weren’t pretty enough. I hear it all and it breaks my heart my child. I know you think you aren’t pretty enough. But I did not create you to be enough for the world. I didn’t create you even for this world. I created every inch of you and it is beautiful and your ability to walk with me is your greatest and most beautiful gift. Know your worth my child. Know that you may never be pretty enough for this world. But this world as no importance. You are more than pretty enough for me. You are created the way you are for a reason. Your purpose is your best accessory. You may not feel beautiful but I promise - I hung the stars and painted the sea and made you in the image of me and that is beautiful. You are mine - love your Heavenly Father God ❤️

Let’s pretend, just for today, all day long, throughout our every thought and decision, that life is easy, that everyone means well, and that time is on our side. Okay? And let’s pretend that we are loved beyond belief, that magic conspires on our behalf, and that nothing can ever hurt us without our consent. All right? And if we like this game,  we’ll play tomorrow as well, and the next day, and the next, and pretty soon, it won’t be a game at all, because life, for us, will become those things. Just as it’s become what it is today. You’re getting warmer,    The Universe

Some times you need to take a step backwards before you move forward again. Let your body rest, and your mind heal. Let the wounds mend, and time pass. Only you know when you are ready to begin again.

There are books you haven’t read yet that will enrich you, films you will watch while eating extra-large buckets of popcorn, and you will dance and laugh and have sex and go for runs by the river and have late-night conversations and laugh until it hurts. Life is waiting for you. You might be stuck here for a while, but the world isn’t going anywhere. Hang on in there if you can. Life is always worth it.

You’ll be together forever one day. The two of you will be reunited someday if you want it enough. You just have to believe. You have to think of this as a temporary, sticky situation. You will come out of it on the other end, stronger. Once the day finally comes when you can be together, you’ll see that all of this was so incredibly worth it. All of the struggles, all of the tears and all of the anxiety will seem like stepping stones, bringing you to this one blissful moment.

Dear person I just may like back, Send me a message. Tell me straight up that you want me. Maybe I just might want you back. Maybe I just have too much at stake to wager a guess. One message. Start with a hi, and we can go from there. You never know. It doesn’t have to be.

Someday I want to be kissed like Alec kissed Magnus, with determination, with grace and with so, so much passion.

Sometimes I remind myself that I almost skipped the party, that I almost went to a different college, that the whim of a minute could have changed everything and everyone. Our lives, so settled, so specific, are built on happenstance.

my dad told us this if someone shoots up our school

This is what school children in America are taught. That is so wrong on so many fucking levels and there are still people who believe gun control in any form is a bad thing.

the bit in caps here is making me rethink my stance on gun control 

‘I’m ugly,’ you say; and whenever you say that, I just wish I could give you my eyes and show you the beautiful you reflected in them.

Your happiness is not dependent upon anyone but yourself. No one else’s happiness is dependent upon you. The moment you accept this truth and become responsible for your own self, you are free to create your best and happiest life NOW.