baby pumpkin tips: how to care for a caregiver.
caregivers are one of the main aspects of regression and are sometimes referred to as superheroes for how much hard work they put into making sure their little is safe and looked after. but, they’re human too and deserved to be looked after and treated as such so here are some pumpkin tips to how to make them feel as special as they make others feel <3.
-> take over the routines ✅
if you do weekly plans with your caregiver like I do with mine, one cute thing that I tent to do is take over responsibility of your little routine. it can be a little difficult to do at first, but honestly the reaction of both confusion and proudness on your caregiver’s face is worth all the struggle <3.
-> give them a day off. 💤
caregivers practically work around the clock to ensure we’re happy and looked after, and sometimes it can get to them physically and mentally. not that we’re too much, it’s just that so many big feels can get a little bit too overwhelming sometimes.
so, giving your caregiver a day off from the usual responsibilities could help your dynamic so so much <3. you wouldn’t have to not speak to them, but you could simply hang out as friends or partners instead for that day & make some adorable memories <3.
-> plan a caregiver day. 🧡
another cute thing I’ve done is changed the plans for a day without daddy knowing and instead of our usual routine one weekend, we ended up having a caregiver’s weekend instead. this does kinda fall in the line of giving them a day off.
however instead of the both of you doing nothing- a caregiver’s day is a complete day dedicated to their likes and hobbies. for example, my daddy loves video games and the cornetto trilogy movies so i planned out weekend around that and make cute little snacks and some cocktails <3.
most caregivers have learned how to burry down their emotions and ignore their needs to ensure that their little is happy and healthy.so, now- it’s our turn to look after them and make them happy and healthy, so check in on them.
ask how they are, and how they’re doing, ask if there is anything you can help with- anything at all, no matter how small and insignificant. remember to compliment them too, tell them you know they’re doing their absolute best and you’re proud of them <3.
if you’re like me, then to show affection- you like to give gifts. now, i’m going to let you in on a baby pumpkin’s secret- home made and personal beats expensive and bought every single time. one of my daddy’s favourite gifts he’s ever received from me in our three-year relationship and dynamic is a homemade video I made him that captured our best moments throughout our relationship. now, he’s loved everything i’ve ever gave him- but that video is the one present he always goes back to <3.
-> remind them how special they are. 💟
any caregivers reading this, i just want to applaud you on your amazing efforts every day from the bottom of my heart <3. i know just how hard you all work just to ensure we’re looked after and happy, and i know how much you bottle up to keep yourselves strong for us <3.
you’ve do so so so much for us every day and sometimes we tend to take that for granted, so behalf on all littles, I just want to say we are so so so so so happy to have you in our lives- we wouldn’t be the same without all of you.
you’re all important, you’re all special and you’re all valid <3.
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