Jun 19
"erm actually alters cant know about each other and you don't have did if you know you have alters"
Wh. What. What the fuck are you talking about. Are you stupid.
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"erm actually alters cant know about each other and you don't have did if you know you have alters"
Wh. What. What the fuck are you talking about. Are you stupid.
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I've noticed there's 2 types of anti endos which is the ones who are completely intolerant of any form of endo and understand the true harm it is if they co exist with trauma survivors. These anti endos are strong on their boundaries, block endos, and when harassed do their best to push past it till it's likely too much. This might lead to aggression often after attempting to keep space and be as respectful about their boundaries as possible. They get villainized, dog piled, and disrespected for simply trying to keep their boundaries up. The other being anti endos who are more willing to let them overstep, be rude, and ignore former anti endos boundaries for the sake of "peace". They are tolerant of endos if it means I don't have to deal with the drama. They'd rather put others comfort and safety in danger if it means they don't deal with too much backlash. They don't defend the people they are so called allies with instead keep their mouths shut to be seen as better than this petty drama. It bothers be so much because you're anti endo yet you so blatantly ignore them hurting others in the process of YOUR idea of peace. The Paradox of Tolerance is exactly what happens in some anti endo communities. It's sad to say that many are so willing to allow appropriation of cultures and abuse of disabled people for the sake of being seen as a "one of the good anti endos". I can block all day long in fact I have over 200 people blocked happily on my discord but that doesn't change how they can still talk using PK while in the same server. It doesn't stop the conversations that "I'm losing friends cause I'm pro endo" or "everyone blocks me because I'm pro endo." There is this idea we as trauma survivors have to tolerate people who see our disorder as a joke, who's whole livelihood was build on the idea our disorder isn't real. Why am I expected to sit still, be nice and play pretend with these individuals. Maybe not all endos end up being fakers, many likely have CDDs however there are plenty who actively see my disorder as a fun act. Why must I treat that person anything but how they present a joke and a for fun act. I'm tired of being this kind anti endo, I won't harass I think that's a waste of time but I'm done asking more than once to have my boundaries respected. I'm done pretending like endos aren't just another form of parasocial child and adults to disabled people. I'm most of all tired of other anti endos who perpetuate he Paradox of Tolerance. If you wouldn't want a bigot in your space why allow them into mine? Written by: Lux - shβ it light might make my own side blog who knows
Guys dont make cool ocs because ill probably form them. Sweats.
The progress to the notion template is slow however I am a decorator by heart. Currently the biggest struggle is finding all the things I'm going to need to add to the coping section in order for it to fit my desired vision. I don't want to just give people a resource without well resources. Thus far the DBT section is the most finished seeing as I have a lot of those resources.. wonder why the BHPD system would have those. Of course any screenshots are considered just a progress photo and might not be the end result as I am a perfectionist.
Currently there is a distraction tab, DBT, CBT and grounding tab. I should have done them in alphabetical order however I like DBT + distractions and I'm left handed so they go on the left. when the templates out you can always change things to fit your own desired liking. As for the PDFs they are free ones I've just grabbed off the internet seeing as well they exist there for a reason. I'm doing my best to avoid any and all AI images related to therapy which is sadly repent when it comes to graphics and charts. Under the keep reading is a personal rant about this whole SP + Octocon situation. As well as why I took this project on and why I'm personally so passionate about it.
Wow! π€© there are now NO system apps anymore!
So, like... now what?
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Notion Template
Not my normal content however I'm actively making a notion template for other disordered systems who are looking into notion. With the anxiety around Simply Plural and my own dislike for octocon I wanted to take this time to work on a template I was already planning on making. For now I'll share a few screenshots of what I have and any suggestions on what people would like to see is more than welcome. I'll start off by saying I am a part time worker and I do have a life as well as currently starting a lengthy therapy process. I can't promise when this template will be out by however I will do my best to make it as accessible as possible. Currently the main notion you will be met with will have 3 sections, one for parts to do bios each leading to their own page. The second being different areas inside the system if that's applicable for you. The 3rd section will have things such as general coping skills (the template will have some already written in), an area to journal, information about other disorders whether it's physical and / or mental. I also hope to add an area to help with tracking switches. Other additions might include a calendar for important dates, to do lists related to mental health, affirmations / self care, and crisis hotline numbers. It is currently almost 3 in the morning as I'm wrapping up this first chunk of the notion so if the grammar is bad that's why. Please remember I am an anti endo and do not wish to have endogenics or supporters interacting.
Yo tag urself
We got the whole syscourse stance spectrum in tha system
Call that the triple S threat
The fuck
Hai tumblr!!! I'm an alter in this system and i wanna introduce myself because I'm special and feel like talking about myself BLEHH
β‘ I go by rosalie/rose and I'm a intersex, transfem, t4t, femme lesbian and i use she/hir pronouns
β‘ Taken by my girlfriends Marco and Heidi from @calicokittiez system
β‘ I am about 22 alterwise
β‘ I hold feelings of dysphoria and intersex joy
β‘ I headcanon almost all of our f/os as transfem sapphics π
β‘ My aesthetic is pastel scene or cottagecore depending on the day
β‘ I have my own blog @rosalieisintersex but i barely use it because I'm not a frequent fronter π
That's all bye byeee, I'll probably never post again, I'm barely ever let out of my cage /silly