Submissive Male

This guide is a bit different. It’s for the women who are already with a beta, or may be curious about what having a beta in their life would provide them.

Why have a beta?

There are many very good reasons for a woman to keep betas around. You see this already, many women happily friendzone boys who are clearly beta. They often won’t discard them just because they don’t want to have sex with them. 

Here’s some of the reasons to have a beta:

Money. His desire for you didn’t go away just because you friend zoned him. He will happily pay for things. If he’s not already offering, try outright asking. You’ll be surprised how willing he is to provide money. 

Tasks. Similar to money, but if you need a person who will run errands for you, fix your computer, paint the fence - he’ll happily do it for you.

Self esteem. While his self esteem will be shot, who doesn’t enjoy people doting on them? Empower yourself ladies, get some betas around you.

Training him

Once you know he’s on the hook, it’s time to ramp things up. You will likely need to do a few things here to make sure the hook of his obsession with you is bedded deep into him.

This is the step that many woman will find uncomfortable, but really unlocks the benefits in their life.

Talk about your sex life. This will drive him insane, he’ll be thinking all about what you do with Real Men. He’ll be stroking in private to what you tell him. So be sure to talk about it semi-frequently. Enjoy the little barbed comments you can make too, like “I like that I can tell you this, you’re such a good friend. It feels like I’m telling one of my best girlfriends”. 

Reduce his self esteem. As with the comment mentioned above, continually make small (some times big!) comments that emphasis his beta place in your relation. Some examples:

“Thanks for always being there. Not many men would spend this much time with a woman they aren’t having sex with”.

“It must be hard for you sometimes, with not many woman finding you attractive”

“Some guys are just destined to not procreate, but that’s OK - you can still have a great life”

“Maybe you could try working out to try and be more attractive?” (even if he is actually in shape).

Make him pay. Outright tell him to pay for things. Start with drinks when you’re out, but level it up over time. I recommend:

First have him pay for things when together.

Then level up to taking him with you when shopping and ask him to pay for something. This takes things to the next level because he’s now paying for things that he’s not even involved with.

Then have him pay for some lingerie for you that you just know your boyfriend would love.

Longer term, if possible, have him add his credit card to your Amazon account or similar. This lets you use his money without having to see him. Trust me: he’ll be rubbing himself raw knowing you’re buying things with his money.

Encourage him to stay single. Let’s be honest, despite this fetish, some beta males end up with women. You do not want that to occur. At this point, you will need to take the next step…

Next steps

Once you have started having your beta pay for things, do tasks for you, etc, you need to codify this into your lifestyle with him. That doesn’t mean living together or anything like that, but you need to keep him on the hook.

Here’s some suggestions:

Send him suggestive photos. These could be snap chat messages or similar of you dressing up for your actual boy friend. Things you know he’ll be rubbing himself to.

Discuss relationships with him. This should be easy to do since you already talk about your sex life. Start talking about his. Start telling him how you kind of prefer him single. This combined with your efforts to keep his self esteem low, he likely won’t even try to find a woman.

Discuss his masturbation. This is a big one. It lets you acknowledge that he does masturbate to fill in his time. Encourage him to not ejaculate. Not ejaculating will fuck with his head and make him more hungry than ever to worship you.

Discuss his ejaculation. He will be loving these things, but this is where you really drive home his position in life. When he does make cummies, you want to encourage it to be into the toilet – that’s where human waste goes right? Tell him he needs to keep you posted about this.