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Stem(me) Lesbian Theory Masterpost
A stemme or stem lesbian is short for stud-femme lesbian. This is a Black lesbian term to describe lesbians whose mannerisms and gender presentation fall between stud and femme. This is a post of the key sources I've found:
Articles and Studies
John Jay College of Criminal Justice LGBTQ+ Terminology, Eli R. Green, 2003-2004)
'Stem โ A person whose gender expression falls somewhere between a stud and a femme. (See also โFemmeโ and โStudโ.)'
Lipstick or Timberlands? Meanings of Gender Presentation in Black Lesbian Communities, Three physical presentations of gender: Femme, gender-blender, and transgressive, Moore, Mignon R. (2006)
'Rather than a de-emphasis on femininity or masculinity, genderblenders combine specific aspects of both to create a unique look.'
Selection from "Black lesbian gender and sexual culture: celebration and resistance," by Bianca D.M. Wilson, published inย Culture, Health & Sexuality, Vol. 11, No 3, April 2009 - Taken from belowdesire reblogged by princessrococco on Pillowfort
'Despite a consistent description of femme and stud at the extremes of lesbian gender expression, participants also discussed several labels that fell between the ultra femme-hard stud ends of the continuum, such as โsoft studโ and โaggressive femmeโ. Labels like these represented lesbians that blended both masculine and feminine ways in their public expression and/or sexual behaviours, but with a purposeful leaning toward more masculine or feminine identity.'
Lesbian Identity: Stemme, Nell S., 6th Nov 2009
'A Stemme is the in-between identity of a Stud and Femme. She is apart of both groups and her identity is subject to change at anytime. A Stemme identity is often referred to as the transitional stage; however, some lesbian women remain a Stemme because they enjoy representing male and female dominance."'
STORY OF INTEREST: Lesbian Speaks Out, Dominica News Online, April 12th 2010
'"one who could switch up one day, she could be a femme and other occasions dress like she has a liโl hood, liโl ghetto inside her; a stemme โ part femme part stud a tomboy"'
Good gay females and babies' daddies: Black lesbian community norms and the acceptability of pregnancy, Sarah J. Reed, Robin Lin Miller, Maria T. Valenti & Tina M. Timm, 21st April 2011
'Stemmes presented themselves one day as femme and another day as stud; as such, they were visibly unrecognisable unless they divulged their gender identity. Stemmes expose the amorphous nature of gender identity and are invisible โ silenced, ostracised or prescribed a gender identity.'
โIt Ainโt All as Bad as it May Seemโ: Young Black Lesbiansโ Responses to Sexual Prejudice, Sarah J. Reed and Maria T. Valenti (2012)
'Stemmes, often blatantly ignored, derogated, or even physically threatened because of their vacillating gender identities, often made use of this strategy: "โฆif they wanted to act like a femme that day, they could get pleasured. If they wanted to act like a stud that day, they can pleasure. They got the best of both worlds actually. To me, thatโs how I see it." '
Labelling, Butch, Femme Dyke Or Lipstick, Aren't All Lesbians The Same?: An Exploration Of Labels And "Looks" Among Lesbians In The U.S. South, Danielle Kerr, (2013)
'Short Dawg said, "A stem, for me, is a little mixture of a lot of different things. One day you can be super feminine, and the next day you can be not so feminine."' 'Jessica states: They [stem] mightโฆhave hair. They might not go straight to cutting their hair, or they might have haircuts, and some stems have short little afros, natural things.'
Good and Messy: Lesbian and Transgender Identities by Matt Richardson, taken from forum: Lesbian generations, L.J. Rupp, Nan Alamilla Boyd, R. Vanita, M. Richardson, S. Stryker (2013)
'โStemโ (or the combination of โstudโ and โfemmeโ) is a Southern African American term for someone who identifies as masculine and feminine.'
'Cultural Factors in the Adherence to Traditional Gender Roles in the Same-Sex Relationships of Black Women, Bianca D. Christian (2019)
'Stem. Another important term to consider in this subgroup is โStem,โ which is a term that is also almost exclusively utilized in the Black lesbian community. This term is a conglomeration of the aesthetics of the โStudโ and โFemme.โ Often these women can appear very feminine one day and then appear very masculine the next day. Some of these women can also style themselves with both aesthetics simultaneously. '
Videos
WTH is a Stem?? - Amberscloset (2013)
The Black Lesbian Handbook: The Stem (2015)
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really fucks me up that kim dokja killing kim namwoon is initially played off as a joke because he didn't like his character in the novel, only for it to later be revealed that he sees his younger self in knw and is just projecting his own self loathing, only for it to later be revealed he resents that knw is continuously forgiven and accepted by yoo joonghyuk despite being fucked up, only for it to later be revealed that this is because kdj hates himself so much that he believes he is the only person who doesn't deserve to be forgiven or accepted. demon king of salvation who doesn't think he deserves to be saved. kind of crazy
orv is horrible in that you fully trust the narrator. even by the end, you know kim dokja is a liar to both himself and therein his readers. but you still choose to believe his words. you choose to love him because he is so fundamentally wounded by the narrative. it's hard not to fall for a narrator of whom you know has no capacity to love himself, despite being love's incarnate.
it's just because he believes in readers that the readers believe him.

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how does one read orv and just move on? how do you read the reader's story and not gaze at the night sky just looking for him? searching for at least a part of him in everybody you walk by, hoping that someone from them has at least a percent of him.. just like how you carry a portion of his storyโ dreaming, wishing, praying that you're both dreaming the same dream,
the reader finally being in the happy ending.
Words of insult
Physical attack
Acts of sacrifice
Credits on the pictures itself!
endure it
something so devastatingly tender and painful about yoo joonghyuk stopping kim dokja from stabbing himself (after the whole oldest dream reveal) paralleling how twsa saved kim dokja when he was a teen. yjh was bleeding and his veins were bulging because he GRIPPED the unbroken faithโs blade so damn tight to stop kdj in time. it would have taken a lot of force since kdj put โevery ounce of energyโ in that strike. in twsa, his pain and desperation wereโin a wayโwhat protected kim dokja. itโs a small detail but iโm sobbing over it because kim dokja has always been saved by yoo joonghyuk and in his efforts to repay him, kim dokja canโt see how yjh just so desperately wants him to be safe iโm losing my mind

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I wish butch n femme balls existed. Not to b a fucking sap n a massive dyke but wow. Ugh even. Just wanna wear a gown n stilettos n have my honey greet me w a bouquet before we leave n we wear matching or complimentary jewelry n spend hours on my hair and makeup to impress. N then when we get there my honey will spin me around the room for a brief dance before grabbing something to drink, wine for me n whiskey for her, as we chat w other dykes n celebrate butchfemmeness. Or whatever
happy kdj appreciation day!!!