choose love

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desirability is such a distraction and as long as we are consistently invested in our own identity solely through the lens of desirability we will literally never progress ….the self objectification has to end at some point. like the denial of how much i truly have to offer outside of my own perceived desirability (which fluctuates anyway) is so disrespectful to myself tbh..i am so much more than this. we all are. i feel like the world is dead set on not ever cracking through the surface of things

i love someone who can apologize and actually change their behavior, that’s growth and maturity.

You are here, still trying, willing to give life a chance, despite feeling broken. No matter how slow your progress is, I don't care what anyone says, you are strong as fuck, okay? I'm so proud of you 💗

Yes looking after yourself can be difficult and repetitive and without any immediate gratification. But the alternative is being hungry, is being cold, is being lonely, is being unclean in a way that makes your skin crawl, is being miserable. So go get yourself a snack, call/message a friend, wash your face and wear some comfy clothes. It might not solve all your problems but it will stop you experiencing more of them.

well, shit

No girl deserves to wake up and feel like she’s not enough.

Please love me from your heart, not according to your mood and need.

I can decide to treat myself with kindness.

how?

Pay attention to your triggers, they are showing you where you need to heal.

I am worthy of recovery.