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I absolutely love being a hotwife. One of the best parts for me is driving my husband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. For the purpose of this entry I’m going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relationship, huband for the hotwife’s primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boyfriend), and lover for the other sex partner who’s not the husband.

Here are some techniques I regularly use that I’ve found hotwives and cuckoldresses can use to make their encounters extra fun for their husbands and for themselves.

When Husband is Watching You with Another Man

Eye Contact* - Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contact with him. Eye contact says, “Look at me!” and makes it impossible for either of you to ignore or trivialize what’s going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, depending on your style and the message you’re trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock eyes with my husband while I’m blowing my lover.

Smile* - Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, “Look how much fun I’m having!” and “Everything is OK.” I love to smile at him when I’m riding my lover cowgirl-style.

Say Something* - You don’t have to jabber away, but it’s fun to say things now and then. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husband’s watching. I also like to interact with him, asking, “How are you liking the show?” or “Don’t you wish you were doing this?” I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and how much fun he’s having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are all great things to do, too. It’s also cute to call you husband by terms of endearment like honey, baby, etc. when you’re being fucked by another man.

Dress Up* - High heel shoes, lingerie, nicely done nails, and perfume all say, “I’m putting effort into looking fucking hot for my lover!” You husband will be aroused by your appearance and jealous of the effort to look good for another guy.

When Husband is Listening from Another Room

Go Nuts* - Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encourage your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door and to your husband’s ears, driving him wild with desire and jealousy.

Emerge, then Vanish* - Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where your husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your husband. Then, go back to the bedroom. Close the door. Lock it.

Make a Movie* - Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV in the room where he’s sitting so he can watch live feed! He’ll be scratching at the door in no time.

When Husband is Not Around

Call Him* - It’s fun to call him and put the phone on speaker phone while you’re getting railed. Then, husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is let your other guy call from his phone instead. It’s more humiliating.

Texts* - Like above, but text dirty things. What you’re doing, feeling, etc. Have your other guy send husband dirty pics of what you’re doing.

Get Caught* - I love having my husband walk in on me when he’s not expecting anything. Just make sure that you know he’d be OK with this, and that your lover is also OK with this. Some people don’t like surprises.

Leave Evidence* - Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in his absence.

Hi!  Thank you so much for your words and for reading through all of my rambling posts about being a Hotwife.  Thank you, also, for the question…it’s one I have considered in my head many times.  The answer is pretty simple; I can honestly say that if he would have told me to stop, I would have stopped immediately.  Granted, it would have been a little embarrassing, and I would have had some explaining to do with my “playmate”, but knowing that D did’t want me to continue would have been all that I needed to hear.

Would I have been angry, hurt, etc.?  I wouldn’t have been hurt, I actually would have probably been happy to some extent that he had some serious feelings about things and wasn’t taking this as a cavalier activity.  And, what woman doesn’t like a knight in shining armor swooping in to say “baby, please don’t do this, I can’t bear the thought of letting you be with someone else”?  ;)  Other emotions I would have had…not anger, but I may have been slightly peeved that he let me get all the way to that point and then wanted me to stop things - in that I would have preferred he didn’t put me in a situation where I had a naked guy on my couch and had to go out and tell him to put his pants back on. ;)  

After all the build-up and preparation and discussions and getting another guy to come over it would have been pretty awful of me to try to stop things in progress. If I had asked her to stop and she said she couldn’t I would have been upset but I probably would have also been even slightly aroused.

I don’t truly want the cuckold lifestyle but there are aspects of her being in charge and calling the shots that are sexy.

Even though it would have bothered me that she went through with it, after asking her to stop, I would have respected her reasons for continuing and wouldn’t have been able to blame her or hold it against her . It was too late in the game to pull back, too far down that road.

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just a peck

kiss for 60 seconds

makeout

give a hickey

trade shirts with another player

truth or dare

drunk stories

do a bodyshot

bite someone’s lip

give a lapdance

lick someone’s neck

slap someone’s ass

7 minutes in heaven

give a mouth and ice massage until it’s molten

lick whipped cream off body part of their choice

eat chips off someone’s lap

remove one article of clothing

undress someone (one article of clothing of their choice)

take one article of someone’s clothing off with your mouth

get your lips close without touching, hold for 30 seconds

sit in someone’s lap

tie a cherry stem with you tongue

eat a banana without breaking eye contact

suck on someone’s fingers for 30 seconds

whisper something sexy into someone’s ear

never have I ever

go commando

reveal your biggest turn on

twerk for 30 seconds

act out a sex position with someone

talk dirty to them

2 truths 1 lie

french kiss

kiss their neck

cop a feel

dry hump

do a striptease

fake an orgasm

kiss down their spine

give a hickey to their inner thigh

do what they want, to them

they do what you want, to you

blindfold them, draw again

give a massage

tie their hands together, draw again

reveal your biggest sexual fantasy

perform an activity on someone of another player’s choice

take a shot of tequila off someone

feed someone something with your mouth

make a sex noise

send someone a sexy selfie

pinch someone’s butt

go into the shower together for 5 minutes (clothes optional)