Men are lost and are the playthings in the hands of women.
WOW. Haven’t been here in a while.
First thing I see is my wife’s titties and ass. Funny how other people get those pictures now-a-days. I remember back in the day, you would send pictures to your bf/gf and not to everyone in the neighborhood. I mean, at least send me the pictures first! LOL. If I care to see how my family’s day went, I have to check Tumblr. The sexual liberation movement....err feminism movement has definitely done a great job. Relationships are all but over.
In the last couple of sentences in the purport to SB 5.13.10 Srila Prabhupada very nicely states:
“One should remain satisfied with one woman, being duly married. One can satisfy one’s lusty desires with his wife without creating disturbances in society and being punished for doing so.”
I don’t judge my wife because she’s a devotee of the Lord. I don’t judge because I love as unconditionally as humanly possible in this material sphere. I don’t judge because it’s better to, instead of focusing on one’s own foolishness, take to self realization and solve the problems of life. I also don’t judge because it’s not really women’s fault why these things are going on, it’s men. Women naturally seek attention/validation. The problem is men’s addiction to seeking pleasure.
Some would say that they are sexual by nature. That they can’t help it. That it’s written in the stars LOL. This may be true. We have become conditioned at some point or other and it is not possible to give up material enjoyment. We may have been habitual since time immemorial, many life after many life, simply for sense gratification. It will not be so easy to give up. Therefore sastra says even if one cannot give up sense gratification, still you to take to Krsna Consciousness.
If you want to be sexual, take to householder life. Find nice wife/husband. Make sex movies together, play with sex toys together, take erotic photos together. In this way you can have your sexual nature without disturbing others and becoming a distraction, while further creating karma for the next life. If those things don’t work, you can find something.
We aren’t taught this because we’re mostly children of divorced parents. Statistics show that children of divorced parents have a higher rate of living in poverty, having mental issues, all kinds of negative things. There’s also stats that show the benefits of growing up in a two parent home such as having healthier relationships, earning more money, being happier etc. We are products of our environment. We see that marriage didn’t work out for our parents. We saw our fathers get divorced raped to kingdom come, having to pay alimony and child support while the woman fed the kids ramen noodles and frozen tv dinners while doing whatever she wanted with the money all the while monkey branching to the next guy.
Today, you will rarely see many relationships last over 10 years. There will be no more 50-60 year anniversaries. My grand and great grand parents had to endure hardships. They had to work hard. They had to actually improve themselves. They stayed together. When they had problems, they couldn’t get online, make a post and have 10,000 simps sending them dick picks. My great grandfather or grandfather couldn’t get on the internet and see naked booty. Now, I get on Tumblr or Instagram and see more naked bodies and porn than my great grandfather, grand father, and father COMBINED. All in about 45 seconds!!
Today, we’re too comfortable and with this comfort comes chaos. We don’t have to slave away in a plant to work, we sit behind a desk. We don’t have to go to war and die in drones, we have robots that do the killing for us. We’re told to accept all of our qualities as being ‘perfectly imperfect’ and if someone doesn’t like it, it’s their fault and that we shouldn’t change or improve our character. We’re entitled assholes and this is what we teach our children. Especially because we don’t say no to them or discipline them. We hand out participation trophies and teach them that we’re all equal, but little Johnny can’t understand why people make fun of him in school for being ‘weird’ so he decides to go shoot up the school or mall.
Men, stop chasing pleasure and start chasing your purpose.
Reading The Bible this morning Proverbs 21:17 states:
“Whoever loves pleasure will be a poor man; he who loves wine and oil will not be rich.”
How do we get to our purpose?
The Holy Bible, Proverbs 20:5 states:
“The purpose in a man’s heart is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out.”
You have to come to proper knowledge and understanding. Men are not getting this from other men today. They’re not going to learned men who have seen the truth. They’re getting it from liberal teachers who either teach them feminism or who show up to school looking like an Instagram model seducing and sleeping with Rick in 10th grade because he can dunk. They get it from society, or they get it from their mother.
‘Alpha’ men are not missing from this world, masculinity is.
This will be expanded upon in subsequent posts because I don’t want to digress and men....yeah, we’re struggling out here. And one reason is because men are not helping other men.
I’m not looking to change anything as there is no going back. The old ways are gone and it’s safer for men to pay for play or go their own way instead of hanging on to the hope strategy that you can have a thriving traditional family. I intend to teach my children how this material world works, mainly money and sex, so that they can easily cross this ocean of nescience. The material world will not change and will always remain a place of misery. Trying to lord it over the material nature will only cause further bondage.
I leave you with this picture on this glorious day of Ram Navami, the appearance day of Lord Ramachandra, of Lord Rama and His beautiful wife Sita. The love everyone desires.
