male, 27, hopelessly submissive

That PSA thing got me thinking.

You know all those brazenly sexist ads of the (circa) 50s? And some modern ones as well. It would be hot to have that reversed (and intensified). Some ideas:

A woman comes from work, tired. At home she finds out that her husband burned their dinner and ruined the oven as well. He’s looking guilty but she just shrugs and pats his head. Next frame is him on his knees eating her out while she’s eating chinese takeout: “For some things you can’t help but need a man - for the rest you always have ((restaurant name))!”

Several similar scenes shown: A man gives a woman a box of chocolates (same brand, different flavor) and she has sex with him. The men are very different in appearance - different in height, body type, complexion, style. The sex they have may vary as well in various ways. In the end the woman is shown eating from another box: “Why limit yourself to one flavor - try them all!”. A meek voice from below: ‘you taste a bit strange today’. She looks down, smiles and keeps eating.

I spend a lot of time thinking about what and why arouses me, as a submissive.

And I think what I find hot is the feeling of... losing? Being taken advantage of. Used. Situations where due to my ineptitude and/or reluctant acceptance of my shortcomings I let a lady have fun at my expense. When she gets pleasure, control, confidence boost, you name it, while I get no reciprocation, throw myself under the bus for her amusement, lose in “status” as it were.

I lost my virginity (if your definition of losing it allows for such a way) on my knees, with my face between a classmate’s thighs, and the obvious power trip she was having was the best part of the experience for me.

 We were at a party, she jokingly told me to “lick her out” after bumping into me and I just blushed and looked down as she and her friends laughed. They kept glancing at me, seemingly making jokes at my expence and laughing, more as they got drunker.

I felt out of place and had no one to hang out with, so after a while I decided to leave. As I almost got outside I saw the same girl leaning next to the wall, smoking. She grinned as she saw me, said “oh hey it’s the licker”. I felt a little braver now that she was alone without the support of her crew’s constant giggling, and stopped to answer something, but just opened my mouth and closed it. Then followed the worst comeback ever: “I never licked anyone!”.

So this exchange continued as she visibly grew bolder, the fact that she wasn’t completely sober helped as well, I imagine. She raised her skirt and puilled down her panties for a moment, letting me catch a glimpse of her pubic hair, leaving me a speechless blushing drone as she made a licking motion and giggled again. 

Silence.

She fixed her skirt, stomped her cigarette and came up to me, grabbed my hand and lead me outside and behind the nearest corner, into an alley. When I asked where are we going she as a matter of fact stated that I’m going to lick her pussy. “N-no”, I said, as I meekly followed.

As I was down there, my nose deep in the musky jungle of her pubes, I heard her giggling and snorting and typing on her phone. She was obviously texting with her friends about what is happening.

Starting with elementary school, girls are taught to lead and boys are taught to obey. Every school activity, every class is planned in a way where children are constantly reminded that girls must control and boys must be controlled.

When it’s time for sex ed, boys and girls are taught together. The focus on female pleasure is emphasized. When students are taught about the vulva, they are taught, apart from, naturally, hygiene and health stuff, all about different kinds of female orgasms, what sort of stimulation is required to achieve them and such. The penises in that regard are only spoken of as tools to pleasure a female and concieve a child.

Not a word about blowjobs in those classes, but cunnilingus is brought up a lot, maybe even as the default kind of sex, definitely the recommended kind to start with to avoid pregnancy. Stylized pictures of various cunnilingus positions are shown, boys are made to practice several tips learned in class on mannequins or mangoes in front of the class, their stamina put to test etc. 

Girl’s education goes on to focus on their chosen field of study, boys keep learning to do housework and please their future spouse.