I like dropout

Let's just say I've got some hard decisions to make

This is more of a subjective thing, but I also feel like HJ's personality switch would come more from SSRIs and therapy than SSRIs alone. SSRIs alone could definitely make him less angry and in that way nicer, but after hundreds of years of toxic masculinity being ingrained in him, he isn't going to snap out of it just because he's emotionally doing better

fantasies about vampires coming to your town to improve the public infrastructure, destroy the rich families milking you for money, and perhaps also making hot vampire sex to you (or helping you make hotter sex with your partner of many years): rejuvenating, what we need in this day and age, modern