"i honestly just had one of the worst experiences ever. i was just going to the gym to work out like i often do, i went into the women's changing rooms to get changed and a woman comes up to me and says 'oh, you're- you're in the wrong space.'
and i said 'oh, um, i'm not actually,"
and she says 'yes you are, you're not welcome here, i'm trying to get changed, i'm about to be naked, you're not allowed here.'
and then these other women started joining in too, and they basically hounded me until i left, left the changing room, they told me i'm not a woman, um, that i was gonna look at them, like they said there's like, some private, like, changing rooms inside the changing rooms and they were like we're gonna have to go in there so that you don't look at us. they was just looking me up and down, really judging how i look, like, who i was, and they just wouldn't let it go, and i didn't know what to say, i was like, 'i just look different to you, but i'm also just here to get changed.'
and, yeah, they just didn't let it go until, until i left. they just hounded me until i left the space. i have had some problems at the gym before, like in the- in the toilets, like, people, like uh, like jumping when they see me and that sort of thing and i just feel like it's just getting worse and worse.
this is the problem with the anti-trans narrative that is being pushed on everybody, it affects everybody, it affects everybody in the queer community, it affects us, masc lesbians, anybody gender non-conforming, like it is affecting everybody. like this is just, it's just a horrible experience but it would be even more traumatizing if i was trans, like we cannot go around treating people this way, like it's so fucked up
the problem is like, where do you go, because now i just feel like i can't go to the gym because there are no unisex [gender neutral is in the text in the video] toilets and they're taking more and more of them away, so what we're just gonna be pushed further and further inside to our houses because they just don't want queer people to exist, they don't want people like me to exist, that don't conform, they don't want trans people to exist, like it, it's- it's so damaging and i just think it's really cruel that people think that they can behave like that, i think it's really really cruel.
the thing is as well is that now i just don't get to go to the gym. they get to carry on living their life and i now am just at home really upset. and there's nothing i can do about it, cause there's no obviously no, how do i prove that's what happened in that space, you can't in, that's the problem in toilets and changing rooms, you can't because there's no, of course there's no evidence, so people can do and say and behave however they want, and it's- it's really dangerous if you get hate crimed or you, you get that you're at the risk of being attacked.
we need gender neutral spaces, obviously, and it's just really scary that they are being taken away, and i just, yeah, i just really hope that everyone in my queer community is okay and that we find a way to make this sort of behaviour stop happening, cause it is just, it's just awful."