just dicking around

I was tagged by @impossiblehush for a selfie, so have a dirty mirror selfie tumblr

A little progress x

Counterstrike & chill? Blyat

Tease

These are actual messages that got sent to me after I patiently and politely declined these people's nasty advances.

Top one asked me to make sex tapes with him (first message, by the way). Second one thought it was okay to keep harassing me after I told him I was uncomfortable with the questions he was asking me. Then he asked me if I was a "feminist or something" after refusing to play his game.

These messages were sent to me anonymously. I do not sell content, nor do I sell sex for money.

I should not have to remind anyone that this is not how you should talk to a woman. It does not matter if she sells photos of herself or if she her sells her body. It does not matter if she rejected you that one time. It does not matter if she was rude to you or ignored you. You should not tell a woman that you want to/are going to rape them. You should not tell anyone you want to rape them.

To anyone who recently had a child, who wants a child, or who already have older children:

I implore you to teach them that women are not objects. Women are not here for anyone's entertainment. Women do not deserve to be insulted. Women do not deserve to be leered at or cat called or insulted by strangers on the internet. Women are beautiful, strong, intelligent, and capable.

I am not asking you to teach your children that women are superior to men or that they should rule the world. I am asking you to teach them that women deserve to be respected. Women deserve to be seen for more than just their bodies.

We have thoughts, ideas, and feelings. We are living, breathing beings who are trying to traverse in a world where we are constantly looked down on for something as trivial as having and showing any kind of emotion. We are looked down on for standing up for what we believe in and for having a voice.

We are forced and encouraged to constantly compete against each other because of how much we are not valued for our minds. We are looked at under the microscope through a superficial lense that tells us we need the way we need to look, the way we need to act, the way we need to sound, and the activities we choose to participate in.

We are ridiculed for wanting to have sex, and we are ridiculed for not wanting to have sex.

We are ridiculed for being too skinny/fat/"thicc," and we are ridiculed for not being skinny/fat/"thicc" enough.

We are ridiculed for being too smart, but when we try be simple, we are ridiculed for being too dumb.